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Jennifer W|1307885001|2943981 said:I don't want one, so it's a moot point, but if I was afraid of him, he would not be my husband. If it was something I did want, I would expect that to be respected. Why do you ask?
ETA, I would not be 'asking' him about any purchase I make anyway. I might discuss it with him, but I wouldn't be seeking the permission implied in 'asking' for something.
Jennifer W|1307885001|2943981 said:I don't want one, so it's a moot point, but if I was afraid of him, he would not be my husband. If it was something I did want, I would expect that to be respected. Why do you ask?
ETA, I would not be 'asking' him about any purchase I make anyway. I might discuss it with him, but I wouldn't be seeking the permission implied in 'asking' for something.
would you married him if there were no such agreement ?...purselover|1307886987|2943992 said:Not at all! DH and I agreed on an upgrade before we were even engaged, honestly if he told me no he'd better have a really good reason. If the money is there I see no reason not to upgrade as often as you want.
Jennifer W|1307885001|2943981 said:I don't want one, so it's a moot point, but if I was afraid of him, he would not be my husband. If it was something I did want, I would expect that to be respected. Why do you ask?
ETA, I would not be 'asking' him about any purchase I make anyway. I might discuss it with him, but I wouldn't be seeking the permission implied in 'asking' for something.
BOTHkenny|1307934911|2944463 said:... an upgrade of what, the diamond or the husband?