Ok...I bought the ring today (posted about my remorse on the price in another forum but that''s a different story)...now I''m trying to figure out how to propose. We are both very laid back and really don''t like public attention. My question is if it''s disappointing for a women if the guy doesn''t do the whole get on one knee routine. I just find it uncomfortable and almost like forced romance...which isn''t romantic to me...I''m afraid she''ll laugh at me and think it''s corny. I know I want to do it on my birthday...as her being my gift...but just not sure if giving it as a present or hiding it in something like a flower or around my cat''s neck is "romantic" enough...or does it really even matter? Help?