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Ideal_Rock
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Date: 4/9/2010 7:53:35 PM
Author: phildominator
Date: 4/9/2010 7:00:08 PM
Author: elle_chris
Remember, they bought the stone because they thought it was pretty when we haven''t even seen it.
What a convoluted situation. How do you tell someone that it''s not pretty, when they think it''s pretty? Secondly, if someone thinks they bought a pretty diamond, then why are they asking others if it''s pretty?
How do PSers know the ''credibility'' of someone''s opinion of ''pretty''? A diamond purchaser could say their diamond is gorgeous, but they''ve been influenced by the salesperson''s talk, the store''s special lighting conditions, etc...
I cleaned my room; it was immaculate. I was so proud of how clean my room was. I then bragged to my dad and wanted to show him how clean my room was. He puts on his white glove, lifts up my radio and wipes up the dust under the radio. ''No, son, it''s not clean.''
Who''s right? Is the room clean? Was my dad a jerk for telling me it wasn''t clean?
Date: 4/11/2010 1:13:04 PM
Author: oldminer
Rockdiamond;
Defining ''pretty'' really works against all that you seem to stand for. The widest possible choice should be able to be seen as ''pretty'' by an individual and I doubt the trade ought to define it. We all know what makes us think something is pretty when we see it, but we surely do not agree about it in some hard and fast way, an objective way, so as to define it. I think it is best to leave pretty and beautiful in the category of ''An appearance which pleases YOU, the individual''. Gemologists and appraisers should stick to objective measurements and let sales people shout and advertised most beautiful, finest light return, most symmetric, most higly polished, most bang for the buck and let consumers decide what they wish to buy. I really think this has been your contention the entire time and I happen to agree with this line of reasoning. Vendors will say whatever they want in regards to their opinion of beauty, but each consumer must choose what they prefer unless they just want to blindly follow advice given by a seller.
The hope to objectively define pretty or beautiful has proven to be impossible and we will not change this no matter how long we beat the drums. We can readily pick attributes which generally are present in things a majority of folks consider beautiful, but if someone wished to add some of these attributes and intentionally still make something unattractive, I am certain they could do it just to disprove that objective results are always possible from certain attributes being present. Of course, there is value in a rule being correct 90% of the time, but it is never going to be a 100% of the time rule.