Hello, I have been following these forums for a while now and have recently decided to purchase a diamond for engagement purposes. I have been going around and checking out a lot of different cut size and colors (all round cut) and feel like its been very interesting to see the differences from stone to stone. Then the other day I met with someone who put an interesting new perspective on my search.
It was a woman (first woman that I have looked at a Diamond with) and after checking out a few things I showed her a diamond I really liked and had the paperwork on from a different jeweler. The first thing she said was, its a very nice diamond, but why do you like it? I told her the cut quality was excellent (table/depth/angles/ with HCA score < 1) and the color was just nearly colorless enough to be able to compete nicely with colorless d-f diamonds of average cut in the same size class. The rock in question was a round 1.5x ct and was h/g in color SI1 clarity. She took out a 1.7x ct SI1 J color stone that just had a good cut, and asked me what I thought. To be honest the stone looked perfectly fine, was eye clean, and was beautiful. She even layed a similar E color stone beside it that was of better cut, and I still thought the J color stone was quite nice (both very eye clean) and was at the very least, not worthy of dismissal. Then she asked me, which one do you think your girlfriend would pick? I laughed and instantly choose the larger 1.7x J color SI1 stone, and she agreed. She then explained to me that alot of these fine cut stones with great HCA rating are all part of the marketing hype and are basically just ways to justify wiggling more money out of your pocket for little in return, and that alot of the qualities I was using to determine my purchase were not going to be visable or appreciated by my girlfriend, but WILL cost me. I thought it was an interesting point. The bigger stone was a few hundred dollars less. She even told me that I would be better off spending the money on a E or F color ring with a less ideal cut becuase it will show better once its dirty, and/or in bad lighting situations due to its very white color. Now after I thought I had found the stone I was going to buy, I feel like its back to the drawing board to start again.
Will an ideal (ex,ex,ex --0.9 HCA) g/h color, eye clean 1.5x ct SI1 stone show/compare well with a good e/f eye clean 1.5xct SI1 of about the same size? Or should I say forget about the super ex cut, nearly colorless stone, and go for a less refined i/j color 1.7x sized stone instead?
I mean how many diamond experts will see this ring? Probably zero! Will she be able to say hers is bigger? Yes!
Will she be able to tell hers is lighter/more colorless? Hard to say, but possibly...
Will she be able to differentiate the finer cut qualities? I know I seem to be able to.
Am I wasting money on something she won''t be able to appreciate?
Thoughts? Any input would be appreciated. I feel like I have hit a brick wall.
Its going to go on a solitaire so there will be nothing else to distract the eye, it is the main event.
Thanks
It was a woman (first woman that I have looked at a Diamond with) and after checking out a few things I showed her a diamond I really liked and had the paperwork on from a different jeweler. The first thing she said was, its a very nice diamond, but why do you like it? I told her the cut quality was excellent (table/depth/angles/ with HCA score < 1) and the color was just nearly colorless enough to be able to compete nicely with colorless d-f diamonds of average cut in the same size class. The rock in question was a round 1.5x ct and was h/g in color SI1 clarity. She took out a 1.7x ct SI1 J color stone that just had a good cut, and asked me what I thought. To be honest the stone looked perfectly fine, was eye clean, and was beautiful. She even layed a similar E color stone beside it that was of better cut, and I still thought the J color stone was quite nice (both very eye clean) and was at the very least, not worthy of dismissal. Then she asked me, which one do you think your girlfriend would pick? I laughed and instantly choose the larger 1.7x J color SI1 stone, and she agreed. She then explained to me that alot of these fine cut stones with great HCA rating are all part of the marketing hype and are basically just ways to justify wiggling more money out of your pocket for little in return, and that alot of the qualities I was using to determine my purchase were not going to be visable or appreciated by my girlfriend, but WILL cost me. I thought it was an interesting point. The bigger stone was a few hundred dollars less. She even told me that I would be better off spending the money on a E or F color ring with a less ideal cut becuase it will show better once its dirty, and/or in bad lighting situations due to its very white color. Now after I thought I had found the stone I was going to buy, I feel like its back to the drawing board to start again.
Will an ideal (ex,ex,ex --0.9 HCA) g/h color, eye clean 1.5x ct SI1 stone show/compare well with a good e/f eye clean 1.5xct SI1 of about the same size? Or should I say forget about the super ex cut, nearly colorless stone, and go for a less refined i/j color 1.7x sized stone instead?
I mean how many diamond experts will see this ring? Probably zero! Will she be able to say hers is bigger? Yes!
Will she be able to tell hers is lighter/more colorless? Hard to say, but possibly...
Will she be able to differentiate the finer cut qualities? I know I seem to be able to.
Am I wasting money on something she won''t be able to appreciate?
Thoughts? Any input would be appreciated. I feel like I have hit a brick wall.
Its going to go on a solitaire so there will be nothing else to distract the eye, it is the main event.
Thanks