LitigatorChick
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My inlaws are certifiable nutbars. They are rude, offensive, and insulting to me and my son. They do this when DH does not see, and when I tell him, he says how could my perfect little mommy and daddy do such things (yes, he has an issue with his parents - calling Freud!!). Or they do stuff when he is around, and then say they "forgot" (like how they have forgotten my last name did not change - we have been married 7 years! Or how they forgot my parents are farmers after they say how stupid farmers are).
DH wants to invite them for a visit (they are from out of town). I cannot handle the abusive nature of their comments, particularly when they are directed at my son (they insult him if he sucks his thumb and they pull it out of his mouth, for example: he is 21 months old).
What can I do??? I don''t want to cause trouble, but if I ignore them, they simply take the insults to a higher and more offensive level. HELP!!!
DH wants to invite them for a visit (they are from out of town). I cannot handle the abusive nature of their comments, particularly when they are directed at my son (they insult him if he sucks his thumb and they pull it out of his mouth, for example: he is 21 months old).
What can I do??? I don''t want to cause trouble, but if I ignore them, they simply take the insults to a higher and more offensive level. HELP!!!