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As some of you may know, I'm married to an American - a wonderful man whom I love and respect HUGELY. I also am very fond of his family and have huge respect for them too.
However, some of the people that I come across, some acquaintances and others have from time to time made dispectful remarks about Americans which irritate me. Granted, I'm not extremely upset or angry. I just think that these people are small-minded, politically incorrect and racist. Most of the time, I just shrug it off, but I'll have to admit, sometimes it gets to me. Still, all that I really ever said to them is that they can't go around making generalisations or being rude about people, that are of a particular race or that come from a particular country.
For instance, in my Chinese class, there's this woman (let's call her "X") who - although she knows full well that both I and this other British lady are married to Americans - has made disparaging remarks in front of us about Americans. She doesn't seem to care!
Yesterday, she commented again that "Americans are so stupid"! I wanted *so badly* to remind her that: 1) my husband has a juris doctorate and speaks and writes fluent Chinese; 2) his family are full of doctors and lawyers and PhD holders and two of DH's brothers and his nephew are also fluent Chinese speakers; and 3) despite the fact that this woman X has been in Shanghai for 5 years now, she can barely speak Chinese. But I knew better than utter these feelings to her, so I bit my tongue and kept my mouth shut.
Later on in the afternoon though, there was a moment in class when we were struggling to understand this rather difficult Chinese grammar rule. Upon seeing that the teacher seemed a bit frustrated with us, this woman X said "we're all stupid". I promptly said (before I could even realise what I was saying): "Well, we must all be Americans then!!"
However, some of the people that I come across, some acquaintances and others have from time to time made dispectful remarks about Americans which irritate me. Granted, I'm not extremely upset or angry. I just think that these people are small-minded, politically incorrect and racist. Most of the time, I just shrug it off, but I'll have to admit, sometimes it gets to me. Still, all that I really ever said to them is that they can't go around making generalisations or being rude about people, that are of a particular race or that come from a particular country.
For instance, in my Chinese class, there's this woman (let's call her "X") who - although she knows full well that both I and this other British lady are married to Americans - has made disparaging remarks in front of us about Americans. She doesn't seem to care!
Later on in the afternoon though, there was a moment in class when we were struggling to understand this rather difficult Chinese grammar rule. Upon seeing that the teacher seemed a bit frustrated with us, this woman X said "we're all stupid". I promptly said (before I could even realise what I was saying): "Well, we must all be Americans then!!"