cinnamon013
Brilliant_Rock
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Hello all. I’ve been lurking on the forum for a long time.

My story is – I have a Diana platinum/18k gold band (size 4) that was my original wedding ring over 11 years ago. (First marriage 8 years before that was an itty bitty .3 carat yellow gold tiffany setting with a gold band – size 3) I hadn’t wanted to duplicate that same ol’ same ol’ the second time around, and always told my husband he “couldn’t afford” what I’d want, so I’d wait. About 4 or so years ago, he got me a very nice channel set eternity band, .05 stones, size 4.5. I know wear that eternity band on my left hand, and my Diana band on my right. I have very small hands, stubby fingers, and am only 5’ tall.
I am now to the point that I don’t want to wait any longer! Jeez, we have one kid about to be a senior in high school, one in middle school, and one in elementary – all girls! We’ve talked about getting the ring, and while I could spend more, I really feel that the $6k is where I am comfortable indulging.
Ok, long post – sorry. I am not known for short stories! Or quick decisions…

Stones:
So far, I have been really impressed with Whiteflash and their selection of stones. I have listed two below, and I’d like to solicit responses from anyone interested in chiming in to help me make this decision, look at every option, and maybe head in a different direction if I’m off base.
Here are two stones I like:
#1 Stone: http://www.whiteflash.com/hearts_arrows/A-Cut-Above-H-A-cut-diamond-231926.htm
0.745 ct G VVS2 A Cut Above H&A
$3,965.00
Item Code: AGS-8302305
. Report: AGS
. Shape: A Cut Above H&A
. Carat: 0.745
. Depth %: 61.6
. Table %: 55.6
. Crown Angle: 35
. Crown %: 15.7
. Star : 54.5
. Pavilion Angle: 40.8
. Pavilion %: 42.9
. Lower Girdle %: 75.6
. Girdle: Thin to Medium
. Measurements: 5.82-5.84X3.59
. Light Performance: 0
. Polish: Ideal
. Symmetry: Ideal
. Culet: Pointed
. Fluorescence: Negligible
Stone #1 does not have the hearts posted. It has a larger measurement, and is slightly less.
#2 Stone: http://www.whiteflash.com/hearts_arrows/A-Cut-Above-H-A-cut-diamond-191592.htm
0.728 ct G VVS1 A Cut Above H&A
$4,158.00
Item Code: AGS-8125002
. Report: AGS
. Shape: A Cut Above H&A
. Carat: 0.728
. Depth %: 61
. Table %: 56.2
. Crown Angle: 34.9
. Crown %: 15.3
. Star : 50.5
. Pavilion Angle: 40.6
. Pavilion %: 42.8
. Lower Girdle %: 74.8
. Girdle: Medium to Slightly Thick Faceted
. Measurements: 5.76-5.79X3.55
. Light Performance: 0
. Polish: Ideal
. Symmetry: Ideal
. Culet: Pointed
. Fluorescence: Negligible
Any ideas on other stones you see on Whiteflash that might have larger measurements? Sparkle, sparkle, sparkle, that’s what I want most though.
Settings:
Since my hands are so small, I think I’ll go with just the ering band, but either of these I could go with the wedding band as well. I’d just need to up my budget… But 5 mm is probably too big. Could do setting A though with both bands.
#A setting: http://www.whiteflash.com/Engagement-Rings/Styles/Diamond-Settings/The--Legato--with-Micro-Pave_1071.htm
$1,495 in platinum
2 mm band. I assume that this legato head could be done for a round stone. I like the thin band. I like the legato head. But would a stone the size that I’m considering look too small in this head? I want the stone to appear “large” on my hand, and not be too encased in the head.
#B setting: http://www.whiteflash.com/Engagement-Rings/Styles/Diamond-Settings/-Diamonds-for-an-Eternity-_998.htm
$1,695 in platinum
2.5 band. I love this band as well. Head seems a bit cheesier, but I’m not opposed to it. But would my size diamond sit up too high? This band retains some of the "eternity" feel of the band I currently wear. This one is a shared prong band.
Whatever I pick, I’d plan on wearing it everyday. I will definitely go with platinum.
My one other question – platinum head for sure, right? I can’t image having a white gold head. Seems weird. Do you know what Whiteflash normally does? I’ve not talked to them yet.
At the B&M, I saw the A. Jaffe micro pave setting with the square shank. LOVE the square shank. Does Whiteflash order in from any designers?
Well, I better end this post! Thanks for reading...and thanks to those who have enough time to respond.
