After vacillating back and forth, analyzing stones, going back to smaller (1.5ct) Whiteflash stones, I finally ordered a ring. Stone is beautiful on video, HCA is 1.2. Setting it in platinum with 8 0.02ct scallop pave stones set in a 2.2mm band. I'm pretty sure she'll like it, and it shouldn't look gaudy on a size 7 hand with long fingers. If folks are interested, I'll share pics when I get it.
Video here: https://www.rarecarat.com/product/87320889?c=1
Video here: https://www.rarecarat.com/product/87320889?c=1