I feel like a horrible person...

[diamondfan]

There will always be people with bigger and so you need to accept this ring now. Later you can upgrade if that works. But for now, do not let all the people''s comments affect you. Be happy in this time, and focus on you gorgeous ring.

 

[orbaya]

Don''t let other people''s comments about how your diamond looks small bother you. I think that''s quite rude to be honest.

I absolutely couldn''t imagine saying that to someone. Why is it of their concern anyway? Putting down someone''s ering just isn''t cool.

You have a beautiful ring. Would you be having these doubts if people didn''t tell you that they think it faces up smaller? If someone says that to you again, I''d say, "I love my ring, that''s what is important, not the size" Don''t say it snidely, but with a smile and a loving voice.

 

[D2B]

It is a fantastic ring. You loved it before you heard silly comments. Time to stop listening to others and enjoy your ring, and please, please, please do not tell others the specs, it only invites people to make comments. Yes a cushion faces up smaller than a round, and mayeby that is all they meant by that comment - but in the end, it is a fantastic size. Others will allways be bigger.

OH, and I am sorry, no way is your family comment about your ring being to small said in concern and love, please, that is jelousy or other issues rearing its head. That is the most bizzare comment I have read on PS regarding family members and e-rings. The concept of what this ring is meant to symbolise seems to have escaped the majority of people who have commeted negatively.

Sorry for being direct, but I am tired and rushed. But all this is said with good intentions.

D2B

 

[purrfectpear]

The first time a family member exhibited "concern" about whether a diamond I owned looked like the right size I''d invite them to open up their checkbook to rectify any failings they thought my stone had. Until they write the check they can shut the heck up. I don''t suffer fools gladly.

 

[No Stone Unturned]

Hey you guys...my family is not in any way jelous of my ring trust me....they just feel that i should get my moneys worth... but thanks for all your supportive comments...i know where to come next time I have a problem...lol...To be honest i think i just got the jitters...I didnt want to be the girl who made the mistake, especially after she had a blank canvas to work with...Right now I''m staring at my ring and i cant picture anything else...

I told my bf about my second thoughts over the weekend and he said exactly what i thought he would....but I dont want to change my ring...it is beautiful and special for so many reasons...Thanks all for calming me down and making me see "the light"...

 

[fabcrab]

Yay! I''m glad you love/satisfied with your ring because it''s absolutely gorgeous. If you become somewhat disatisfied maybe you can send your lovely cushion to me hehe. Joking of course

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