Hi everyone, a little backstory..
I have been with my man for almost 8 years, im 29, hes 33.
We first started talking about marriage about a year ago, and we are both on the same page so far about everything such as the type of wedding we want, timelines etc.
The last time we spoke about it my partner said something that is stuck in my head.
He said " I dont actually want to be engaged, I dont really see the point in it, I just want to sell the house, and use the money to get another house, and marry you"
Basically, once we sell the house and we have the money he just wants to get married right away.
Hes actually said that before in an earlier conversation.
I feel like I am missing out in a way, are my feelings justified? how would you feel?
I have been with my man for almost 8 years, im 29, hes 33.
We first started talking about marriage about a year ago, and we are both on the same page so far about everything such as the type of wedding we want, timelines etc.
The last time we spoke about it my partner said something that is stuck in my head.
He said " I dont actually want to be engaged, I dont really see the point in it, I just want to sell the house, and use the money to get another house, and marry you"
Basically, once we sell the house and we have the money he just wants to get married right away.
Hes actually said that before in an earlier conversation.
I feel like I am missing out in a way, are my feelings justified? how would you feel?