Ok...well I am not going to get involved in the should she look to replace the diamond or the boyfriend...or both. But I did want to tell you all what I did just last Tuesday.
I purchased, online, exactly the setting my girl friend wanted with the size diamond she wanted. I took her opinions because, "she would be wearing it for the rest of her life" and wanted to make sure she got what she wanted. We went to many B&M places so I could get ideas of what she liked, then I went online and purchased it. (Don't hurt me but I got it at bluenile.com.)
For me, makeing sure she got what she wanted was more important to me then the cost or what I wanted to get her....reason: Above all, I wanted her to be happy and because if she is going to be wearing that on her finger 'for the rest of her life", I am going to have to look at it and listen to her either complain or praise me for the rest of my life. And I think hearing prise is alot better then hearing her complain.
So seems to me one of two things happend here with him,
1. He walked in with $1,000 and said to the sales person, "Hi, I want to get my girlfriend an engagement ring and I have a budget of $1000." or
2. He walked in and purchased the first thing he saw to put on her finger because he had to...not because he wanted to.
Just my 2 cents....
I purchased, online, exactly the setting my girl friend wanted with the size diamond she wanted. I took her opinions because, "she would be wearing it for the rest of her life" and wanted to make sure she got what she wanted. We went to many B&M places so I could get ideas of what she liked, then I went online and purchased it. (Don't hurt me but I got it at bluenile.com.)
For me, makeing sure she got what she wanted was more important to me then the cost or what I wanted to get her....reason: Above all, I wanted her to be happy and because if she is going to be wearing that on her finger 'for the rest of her life", I am going to have to look at it and listen to her either complain or praise me for the rest of my life. And I think hearing prise is alot better then hearing her complain.
So seems to me one of two things happend here with him,
1. He walked in with $1,000 and said to the sales person, "Hi, I want to get my girlfriend an engagement ring and I have a budget of $1000." or
2. He walked in and purchased the first thing he saw to put on her finger because he had to...not because he wanted to.
Just my 2 cents....