Well its getting to be the end of the year. If you''ve read my posts before you would know that the BF told me it would be before my birthday this year...well now thats turned into Thanksgiving (which is 1 week before my bday!) So anyways, its coming up which im super excited about (Thanksgiving is also my favorite holiday!)
Its been a hard week for me. So far we''ve been to 3 weddings this year and we have 2 more coming up--one being my best friend in which i am the maid of honor. According to what he''s told me, we will be engaged about a month before her wedding...
Earlier this week she sent me an email about their wedding website that she had just created...then another friend who got married (one of the 3 weddings) sent me a link to her wedding pictures. I had checked my mail and saw the 2 new emails with subjects about weddings. I completely broke down. I just want it to be my turn. I feel a bit petty with it because usually im not a jealous person but I can''t help it. I didn''t even read the emails, i just broke down reading the subjects. BF hates when i cry and get upset about it so i''ve tried not to and I try to keep it in but that night it got me. Which then makes me feel bad that I''m making him feel bad....ugh, its just a circle that feels never-ending right now. He is saving $$ and obviously is close to having what he wants, but for some reason that doesn''t make me feel any better. He says I know its coming, I know it will be soon and doesn''t understand why that isn''t good enough. ( We have some friends who have been together 5+ years and anytime marriage gets brought up, he blows her off---so BF thinks that since he doesn''t blow me off, I know he''s on the same page etc. that that should make it better) Then he feels like i''m disappointed in him. He says that if he could have, it (proposal) would have been done by now...I hate when he says that. I don''t know why, but i can''t stand it.
I feel like I hold things against him because I''m just sick of waiting. I got mad at him this afternoon for wanting to go to his friends house to watch the football game. I hate football--why do I care if he sits here and watches it or goes to have fun with his friends? It doesn''t make any difference to me. I told him I didn''t want him to go, he still went. I don''t know. Now im sitting here feeling sorry for myself. gah.
I think I''m just so sick of waiting-I don''t want to hold things against him. I''m not that girl who picks fights and is angry and pushing for a ring all the time. I don''t know what to do. I hate being upset over something that I know is on its way. I hate being upset about something that I shouldn''t be upset over. I hate making BF feel like he can''t give me what I want...... I don''t know.
Can i have a hug?
Its been a hard week for me. So far we''ve been to 3 weddings this year and we have 2 more coming up--one being my best friend in which i am the maid of honor. According to what he''s told me, we will be engaged about a month before her wedding...
Earlier this week she sent me an email about their wedding website that she had just created...then another friend who got married (one of the 3 weddings) sent me a link to her wedding pictures. I had checked my mail and saw the 2 new emails with subjects about weddings. I completely broke down. I just want it to be my turn. I feel a bit petty with it because usually im not a jealous person but I can''t help it. I didn''t even read the emails, i just broke down reading the subjects. BF hates when i cry and get upset about it so i''ve tried not to and I try to keep it in but that night it got me. Which then makes me feel bad that I''m making him feel bad....ugh, its just a circle that feels never-ending right now. He is saving $$ and obviously is close to having what he wants, but for some reason that doesn''t make me feel any better. He says I know its coming, I know it will be soon and doesn''t understand why that isn''t good enough. ( We have some friends who have been together 5+ years and anytime marriage gets brought up, he blows her off---so BF thinks that since he doesn''t blow me off, I know he''s on the same page etc. that that should make it better) Then he feels like i''m disappointed in him. He says that if he could have, it (proposal) would have been done by now...I hate when he says that. I don''t know why, but i can''t stand it.
I feel like I hold things against him because I''m just sick of waiting. I got mad at him this afternoon for wanting to go to his friends house to watch the football game. I hate football--why do I care if he sits here and watches it or goes to have fun with his friends? It doesn''t make any difference to me. I told him I didn''t want him to go, he still went. I don''t know. Now im sitting here feeling sorry for myself. gah.
I think I''m just so sick of waiting-I don''t want to hold things against him. I''m not that girl who picks fights and is angry and pushing for a ring all the time. I don''t know what to do. I hate being upset over something that I know is on its way. I hate being upset about something that I shouldn''t be upset over. I hate making BF feel like he can''t give me what I want...... I don''t know.
Can i have a hug?