Hello!
I''m Vani and I''m 25 years old, soon to be 26. I''ve been lurking for longer than I care to admit to, but have finally decided to be brave and come out of hiding! Very excited to "meet" you all, although I feel like I know many of you already
Anyway, there is something I''d like your advice on. I''ve only been with my boyfriend a few months (met through a friend and starting dating straight away), but it just seems really right. I''ve been in two serious relationships before (one for almost 5 years) in which I always felt I was compromising too much, we would argue, etc etc, but there is none of that at all with my BF. We are just really happy, so similar and get on so well. I had always had a feeling that 9 months-1year would be the absolute minimum time before I would consider getting engaged, but am starting to reconsider whether you actually need that long. Any thoughts?
(Extra info in case it impacts: I was single for almost a year before current BF, so there isn''t any element of rebound, we both have steady jobs and are financially independent, and I don''t want to live together before marriage - hope no-one is offended by that, just my own decision).
Thanks in advance!
I''m Vani and I''m 25 years old, soon to be 26. I''ve been lurking for longer than I care to admit to, but have finally decided to be brave and come out of hiding! Very excited to "meet" you all, although I feel like I know many of you already
Anyway, there is something I''d like your advice on. I''ve only been with my boyfriend a few months (met through a friend and starting dating straight away), but it just seems really right. I''ve been in two serious relationships before (one for almost 5 years) in which I always felt I was compromising too much, we would argue, etc etc, but there is none of that at all with my BF. We are just really happy, so similar and get on so well. I had always had a feeling that 9 months-1year would be the absolute minimum time before I would consider getting engaged, but am starting to reconsider whether you actually need that long. Any thoughts?
(Extra info in case it impacts: I was single for almost a year before current BF, so there isn''t any element of rebound, we both have steady jobs and are financially independent, and I don''t want to live together before marriage - hope no-one is offended by that, just my own decision).
Thanks in advance!