This is a question for any lawyers out there - or anyone that might know. Please don''t give me the advice that I need to get a lawyer b/c I already have one - but, I don''t like him very much b/c everytime I talk to him on the phone, he has to tell me how great he is...which isn''t true.
Background: About three years ago, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend. He refushed to give me my belongings. Then, he started leaving threatening phone messages on my cell phone. He said if I didn''t get back with him, he was going to do really bad things to me (I won''t go into detail). He called and harrassed me and several of my friends. I took my cell phone to the police, and they listened to it. Based on this, they arrested him, and he spent three nights in jail. After that, it was supposed to go to court. But, he kept doing things to delay it and was going to supeno my boss and grandparents just to embarrass me in court. I had the DA drop the case, and I thought that would be the end of it.
Fast forward a year. I get engaged, and the engagement gets announced in the paper. All of a sudden, I am being sued by the ex-boyfriend. He can''t sue for false arrest b/c I didn''t put a warrant on him...the sheriff did based on the phone calls that they listened to. He can''t sue for verbal slander b/c it has been over a year - I didn''t like about anything anyway. So...his lawyer makes up some stupid reason - I breached my duty not to run around telling lies. Yes - that is exactly what was said in court. So..I had to hire a lawyer, which cost $600 at that point. So, we go to court and the judge tells his lawyer that he can''t come in there making up the law - but she gives him a chance to revise it. Thirty days later, I''m back in court. The judge then dismisses his case b/c it has no legal basis. Then, the ex-boyfriend appealed the judge''s decision.
So, then I had to pay my lawyer more money - for a total of $2,100 to represent me in appeal court. It just got dismissed again, but he is appealing it again.
How can someone sue me when I didn''t do anything? His case is frivilous, but he keeps appealing it. How long can this go on? What can I do about it? I now live out of the state where it is happening. I don''t want to call my lawyer b/c he will start asking me for more money that I don''t have. I am getting really depressed about this b/c I did nothing wrong. I just want this crazy guy to leave me alone.
Thanks for any advice anyone might have to help me.
Background: About three years ago, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend. He refushed to give me my belongings. Then, he started leaving threatening phone messages on my cell phone. He said if I didn''t get back with him, he was going to do really bad things to me (I won''t go into detail). He called and harrassed me and several of my friends. I took my cell phone to the police, and they listened to it. Based on this, they arrested him, and he spent three nights in jail. After that, it was supposed to go to court. But, he kept doing things to delay it and was going to supeno my boss and grandparents just to embarrass me in court. I had the DA drop the case, and I thought that would be the end of it.
Fast forward a year. I get engaged, and the engagement gets announced in the paper. All of a sudden, I am being sued by the ex-boyfriend. He can''t sue for false arrest b/c I didn''t put a warrant on him...the sheriff did based on the phone calls that they listened to. He can''t sue for verbal slander b/c it has been over a year - I didn''t like about anything anyway. So...his lawyer makes up some stupid reason - I breached my duty not to run around telling lies. Yes - that is exactly what was said in court. So..I had to hire a lawyer, which cost $600 at that point. So, we go to court and the judge tells his lawyer that he can''t come in there making up the law - but she gives him a chance to revise it. Thirty days later, I''m back in court. The judge then dismisses his case b/c it has no legal basis. Then, the ex-boyfriend appealed the judge''s decision.
So, then I had to pay my lawyer more money - for a total of $2,100 to represent me in appeal court. It just got dismissed again, but he is appealing it again.
How can someone sue me when I didn''t do anything? His case is frivilous, but he keeps appealing it. How long can this go on? What can I do about it? I now live out of the state where it is happening. I don''t want to call my lawyer b/c he will start asking me for more money that I don''t have. I am getting really depressed about this b/c I did nothing wrong. I just want this crazy guy to leave me alone.
Thanks for any advice anyone might have to help me.