Nomsdeplume
Brilliant_Rock
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So my friend I and I were speculating and discussing my failed relationship and moronic ex, and came to the conclusion that I never date nice guys. I know tons of nice guys who would make great boyfriends but I never feel a spark with any of them. The men I do feel a spark with are all the same, good looking, confident, a bit cocky, a bit mysterious. The bad boy.
So if this trend continues I''m doomed to date a-holes for all eternity. But I also feel that if I decided to try dating a nice guy I might never feel that spark and always feel like I''m "settling". Apparently the chemistry fades anyway, but I don''t know if that''s true. Won''t there always be something "missing" in the relationship?
I''m not ready to get back into the dating game yet, but I''m wondering if I always set myself up to fail.
Any thoughts on the importance of chemistry between two people?
So if this trend continues I''m doomed to date a-holes for all eternity. But I also feel that if I decided to try dating a nice guy I might never feel that spark and always feel like I''m "settling". Apparently the chemistry fades anyway, but I don''t know if that''s true. Won''t there always be something "missing" in the relationship?
I''m not ready to get back into the dating game yet, but I''m wondering if I always set myself up to fail.
Any thoughts on the importance of chemistry between two people?