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@Elizabeth35 that is major downsizing! Kudos to you for managing!
I managed to get rid of a lot of old clothes; except my engagement party dress. Why? I will never fit into it, an old fashioned style, my kids will never wear it. But it sits in my closet for so many years due to sentiment!
It depends lol ... my general rule, the more sentimental it is, the more likely I will keep it ...If you have an item (jewelry/ clothes whatever) that you never use but it has sentimental value, do you keep it?
I have sold a couple of pieces that had some sentimentality attached to them (a ring my aunt passed on to me, 4-5 jewelry pieces my husband gave me as gifts) ... I have no regrets for myself, but I have since learned my DH wishes I would have kept one Tiffany sterling+CS ring -- although I have doubts it was untreated CS so I'm still okay with selling it, had I known DH wanted me to keep it, I would have kept it in my jewelry box...Or sell it & use the funds towards something you will use?
For a number of years I had only one regret in selling something, an WF ACA half-bezel ring ... but I can say truthfully that I now have zero regrets about anything I have sold.Do you regret selling?
No guilt about anything unused - if I treasure it, I'm okay with keeping it.Do you feel guilty having something unused?
I have trouble getting rid of sentimental things from my deceased parents and grandparents. I kept all the jewelry they gave or left to me, as well as pieces that hold special memories. I have no problem getting rid of my personal items, except those gifted by my husband and daughter.
@Daisys and Diamonds i love that vase -the frosted designs are so pretty!
For some reason i never inherited any items from my grandparents.
I would have loved to for the sentiment & history.
As far as the dress goes, i guess i can look at it & remember when i was a slim young thing lol
...but I am also the person who has kept my dog's baby teeth that fell out (if anyone doesn't know, dogs lose baby teeth just like people do). The thought of throwing them away just makes me sad and feel like I'm throwing away a piece of them. DH thinks I'm certifiable for it, but oh well.
I don't tend to sell or get rid of sentimental stuff. I wait and think about it until I am sure I can get rid of it. I don't tend to get sentimental about many things though, so it doesn't end up coming up often.
But I was absolutely heartbroken when I sent my original engagement ring diamond to Sally at Heart of Water in Thailand and it got lost/stolen and never arrived to her. ugh that was awful and a huge lesson learned for me about being more careful about sending stuff overseas that it would break my heart to lose.
...but I am also the person who has kept my dog's baby teeth that fell out (if anyone doesn't know, dogs lose baby teeth just like people do). The thought of throwing them away just makes me sad and feel like I'm throwing away a piece of them. DH thinks I'm certifiable for it, but oh well.
@lovedogs I have one of my dogs' baby teeth in my jewelry box!...but I am also the person who has kept my dog's baby teeth that fell out (if anyone doesn't know, dogs lose baby teeth just like people do). The thought of throwing them away just makes me sad and feel like I'm throwing away a piece of them. DH thinks I'm certifiable for it, but oh well.
I don't tend to sell or get rid of sentimental stuff. I wait and think about it until I am sure I can get rid of it. I don't tend to get sentimental about many things though, so it doesn't end up coming up often.
But I was absolutely heartbroken when I sent my original engagement ring diamond to Sally at Heart of Water in Thailand and it got lost/stolen and never arrived to her. ugh that was awful and a huge lesson learned for me about being more careful about sending stuff overseas that it would break my heart to lose.
...but I am also the person who has kept my dog's baby teeth that fell out (if anyone doesn't know, dogs lose baby teeth just like people do). The thought of throwing them away just makes me sad and feel like I'm throwing away a piece of them. DH thinks I'm certifiable for it, but oh well.