princesss
Ideal_Rock
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BF and I broke up on Sunday. He moved out last night. He got the rest of his stuff today while I was at work. I go home in half an hour to an empty house and it's only really just hitting me what happened.
So far I'm looking for a new apartment, redecorating a little bit, and going out with friends and staying busy. Tonight's the first night I'll be spending all night at the house by myself. All of my friends are busy, and this had to happen at some point. I have a feeling I'm going to have a really big cry, but I don't know what's going to happen after that. I just feel kind of numb. It was my choice (and the right choice), but that doesn't mean it's easy to change my life so completely or say goodbye to somebody I care about.
So what do you/did you do to get over break ups? Especially if you were the dumper... For obvious reasons, most people focus on how it feels to be dumped, but this side of things isn't exactly sunshine and puppies, either.
Also, if you have any good songs for a break-up/I'm single for the first time in my adult life playlists, they'd be very welcome.
So far I'm looking for a new apartment, redecorating a little bit, and going out with friends and staying busy. Tonight's the first night I'll be spending all night at the house by myself. All of my friends are busy, and this had to happen at some point. I have a feeling I'm going to have a really big cry, but I don't know what's going to happen after that. I just feel kind of numb. It was my choice (and the right choice), but that doesn't mean it's easy to change my life so completely or say goodbye to somebody I care about.
So what do you/did you do to get over break ups? Especially if you were the dumper... For obvious reasons, most people focus on how it feels to be dumped, but this side of things isn't exactly sunshine and puppies, either.
Also, if you have any good songs for a break-up/I'm single for the first time in my adult life playlists, they'd be very welcome.