fieryred33143
Ideal_Rock
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Sophia has been going through a phase at bedtime. Don''t know if it''s a separation anxiety phase or a ''my mom is a sucker'' phase. Either way, bedtime has become a complete chore. As soon as I walk out the room she screams with tears (soaks her pjs), cralws and bangs her head against the crib, and tries to take her clothes off. Then we enter the point of no return.
So I''ve been sitting in her room. The light is off, I''m far from her so she can''t touch me and I don''t engage in "conversation" or play with her.
When I do this, she''s much better. She sits, lays, crawls, stands, lays down etc. For about 20-30 mins before falling asleep. No tears, no rocking. This is *ideal* except I need to get her to do this without me in the room. We have tried everything. I make sure the house is really dark so she can''t see when I''m walking out but she can still tell I''m not in the room. I had a little bit of success with putting on her projector and from the door going "oh wow Sophia look at the fish" to get her to look and not pay attention to me walking out. This worked until she was ready to sleep and the projector was bothering her. I snuck in to turn it off but she caught me and started wailing.
Any tips??
So I''ve been sitting in her room. The light is off, I''m far from her so she can''t touch me and I don''t engage in "conversation" or play with her.
When I do this, she''s much better. She sits, lays, crawls, stands, lays down etc. For about 20-30 mins before falling asleep. No tears, no rocking. This is *ideal* except I need to get her to do this without me in the room. We have tried everything. I make sure the house is really dark so she can''t see when I''m walking out but she can still tell I''m not in the room. I had a little bit of success with putting on her projector and from the door going "oh wow Sophia look at the fish" to get her to look and not pay attention to me walking out. This worked until she was ready to sleep and the projector was bothering her. I snuck in to turn it off but she caught me and started wailing.
Any tips??