I am a lurker here who was planning on getting engaged but I now have second thoughts. I want to know how did you know you current husband/fiance was the one? We have been together for 3 years and he is the most amazing person but we come from different countries and cultures and I am worried about if we will actually make it work. We have our differences in personality and where we want to live. I miss my part of the world, I am currently living in his. Maybe its not the right place to ask about this but I feel at home here due to my love of jewelry...