Okay. So all my life I never was controlling or demanding especially in my relationships. I am normally very secure and don''t worry about my future husband going out with the boys and having fun. However, the Bachelor Party scares the crap out of me!! I do trust him, so don''t even start with that. And yes we should get married, we love each other very much and I can''t imagine my life without him. I''m just scared that his friends are going to think that this great amazing idea of a Bachelor party, that is over the line was a great idea at the time until it ruined our relationship. I don''t think that my Fiancee would ever cheat on me, sober or do things out of line, sober. However at his bachelor party they are going to get him wasted and he isn''t going to be making his own decissions. Is it just me? Am I the only one so scared I can''t sleep at night? Now I just heard that they want to take him to NYC. Thats 6 hours away from where we are going to be for the week of our wedding. I''m ok with him going out with the boys and having fun. I am going out with the girls and having fun the same night so I won''t be left at home getting sick over this. I trust him, I don''t trust them. Is it unreasonable to want him to have a great night at the same time as me and be finished the same night with all of this? Since when is getting a guy to practically cheat on his girl or step over the line of what is okay, since when is that "male bonding"? Why should we stand on the sidelines, when this whole party is supossed to be out how much we lover each other and want to be together?
I think those Bachelor parties should be for them. The actuall bachelors, guys that aren''t pledging their love and eternity to be with the one they love. How do those go hand in hand? Does anyone have any advice how to deal with this? And yes, I have told my Fiancee how I feel and he thinks that I must not trust him. But I keep trying to explain that I don''t trust what can happend when guys get rowdy and think they are doing him a "favor". I also, know how he and his best man used to be before me. They did a lot of bad things with girls and they got really wild. Maybe I should just get on Xanex until this is all over.
I think those Bachelor parties should be for them. The actuall bachelors, guys that aren''t pledging their love and eternity to be with the one they love. How do those go hand in hand? Does anyone have any advice how to deal with this? And yes, I have told my Fiancee how I feel and he thinks that I must not trust him. But I keep trying to explain that I don''t trust what can happend when guys get rowdy and think they are doing him a "favor". I also, know how he and his best man used to be before me. They did a lot of bad things with girls and they got really wild. Maybe I should just get on Xanex until this is all over.