HollyS
Ideal_Rock
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- Jul 18, 2007
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I''m sorry that you find yourself in this situation. From the info you provided, this is the source of the communication gulf between you both: the baby.
Is your husband acting childishly? Of course. But I feel it''s necessary to ask you this question: have you neglected him in important ways because you now have a child to care for? Whether you believe you have, he thinks you have. And if you want to fix this from his perspective, make it right with him, then you will have to acknowledge that. That''s the starting point. He isn''t being fair to you, but believe him when he tells you he resents you because of the baby. You must begin there to heal the marriage.
I wish you the best.
Is your husband acting childishly? Of course. But I feel it''s necessary to ask you this question: have you neglected him in important ways because you now have a child to care for? Whether you believe you have, he thinks you have. And if you want to fix this from his perspective, make it right with him, then you will have to acknowledge that. That''s the starting point. He isn''t being fair to you, but believe him when he tells you he resents you because of the baby. You must begin there to heal the marriage.
I wish you the best.