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Help me buy a strand of pearls for my husband

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He's a bit too private for internet photos, but he's been very much enjoying a necklace of jade (or jadelike) beads, a silver bracelet, and a selection of brooches he adopted from my collection. (He wears these items one at a time.) I confess I haven't yet strung his pearls--I need to get the right size silk.

Have you considered using Serafil / Beader's Secret instead of silk? I stopped using silk altogether. The polyester thread is strong, silky feeling, doesn't stretch and isn't weakened by getting wet. It's easy to knot without tools and if a stray knot happens where you don't want it, it can be picked out (nearly impossible with silk.)
 

glitterata

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This all sounds wonderful and exactly up my alley. Where does he wear the brooches? On jackets?

Yes, on his lapel. Next time we go to a brooch-worthy occasion, I'll see if I can get him to let me take a discreet lapel photo.

Meanwhile, here he is with the bracelet I gave him. I got it at a flea market. It's hollow gilded silver, beautifully handmade. I believe it's actually an Indian armlet--it's WAYWAYWAY too big for my wrist--falls right off. (OMG why isn't he wearing his wedding band in this photo?! I must have taken the photo in the morning before he put the ring back on.)


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glitterata

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Yes, on his lapel. Next time we go to a brooch-worthy occasion, I'll see if I can get him to let me take a discreet lapel photo.

Meanwhile, here he is with the bracelet I gave him. I got it at a flea market. It's hollow gilded silver, beautifully handmade. I believe it's actually an Indian armlet--it's WAYWAYWAY too big for my wrist--falls right off. (OMG why isn't he wearing his wedding band in this photo?! I must have taken it in the morning before he put it back on.)


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And he gave me permission to post this photo of him wearing my Pearl Paradise multicolor metallic freshwater pearls--my necklace and bracelet linked together to make them long enough. Lousy lighting in this photo--the colors are much less muddy than this. I love these pearls in their box, but they somehow don't look good on my skin, so I rarely wear them. I should restring them as a single necklace and give them to him.

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And he gave me permission to post this photo of him wearing my Pearl Paradise multicolor metallic freshwater pearls--my necklace and bracelet linked together to make them long enough. Lousy lighting in this photo--the colors are much less muddy than this. I love these pearls in their box, but they somehow don't look good on my skin, so I rarely wear them. I should restring them as a single necklace and give them to him.

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That's so cool! I wish I could get my hubby into some pearls or anything really. All he will wear is his wedding band and watch. He is way into watches, though.
 

glitterata

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And he gave me permission to post this photo of him wearing my Pearl Paradise multicolor metallic freshwater pearls--my necklace and bracelet linked together to make them long enough. Lousy lighting in this photo--the colors are much less muddy than this. I love these pearls in their box, but they somehow don't look good on my skin, so I rarely wear them. I should restring them as a single necklace and give them to him.

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I got him to put on his "jade" beads for you guys (I'm told these are not actually jade, but a related material called dushan jade):

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And here are the brooches I decorate his lapel with on fancy occasions. The light one is a c. 1900 silver gilt brooch from Sri Lanka set with natural rose-cut zircons (these are often sold incorrectly as 18th century European or English paste). I have a small version I wear to be companionable. The others are late-Victorian rose-cut Bohemian (pyrope) garnets. He wears these brooches one at a time.

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And here are the backs--I always want to see the backs myself to understand the construction. Pen for scale. I need to replace the missing glass on the big garnet brooch's locket section and put our photos in it and its pendant.

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LilAlex

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He was just headed out the door and I made him take a pic. Note the octopus belt buckle.

This is so great! And I love that belt buckle! This is more what I am accustomed to seeing -- in terms of man-bling -- in our half of the country.

And pearls are just the grown-up version of the puka shell necklaces boys wore in the '80s, right?

Nice to see jewelry on men getting some more exposure!
 

Daisys and Diamonds

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I got him to put on his "jade" beads for you guys (I'm told these are not actually jade, but a related material called dushan jade):

IMG_8254.jpeg

IMG_8252.jpeg

And here are the brooches I decorate his lapel with on fancy occasions. The light one is a c. 1900 silver gilt brooch from Sri Lanka set with natural rose-cut zircons (these are often sold incorrectly as 18th century European or English paste). I have a small version I wear to be companionable. The others are late-Victorian rose-cut Bohemian (pyrope) garnets. He wears these brooches one at a time.

IMG_8264.jpeg

And here are the backs--I always want to see the backs myself to understand the construction. Pen for scale. I need to replace the missing glass on the big garnet brooch's locket section and put our photos in it and its pendant.

IMG_8263.jpeg

oh my God
i think ive died
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Dreamer_D

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Loving these images. I do t collect brooches because I don’t really wear anything where I could attach them, but wearing them on a blazer is brilliant.

And I’m loving these examples! I am taking notes. I think my husband needs some bracelets and a metal bead necklace and I also want to get him a cool hat. And a nice statement ring. He usually wears suspenders and docs and I think a little more bling would tie things together.
 

Daisys and Diamonds

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it has been my wish that HM King Charles would delve into his mother's brooch collection

he has however dusted off tie pins and watch chains which he wears very well
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I got him to put on his "jade" beads for you guys (I'm told these are not actually jade, but a related material called dushan jade):

IMG_8254.jpeg

IMG_8252.jpeg

And here are the brooches I decorate his lapel with on fancy occasions. The light one is a c. 1900 silver gilt brooch from Sri Lanka set with natural rose-cut zircons (these are often sold incorrectly as 18th century European or English paste). I have a small version I wear to be companionable. The others are late-Victorian rose-cut Bohemian (pyrope) garnets. He wears these brooches one at a time.

IMG_8264.jpeg

And here are the backs--I always want to see the backs myself to understand the construction. Pen for scale. I need to replace the missing glass on the big garnet brooch's locket section and put our photos in it and its pendant.

IMG_8263.jpeg

Those beads look so great! I love the cool mint color.
And the brooches are perfect for a guy's lapel!
 

Daisys and Diamonds

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because we have gone way off topic i will try to contain myself to just one picture
But Bruce Springsteen has worn a lot of jewellery
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never seen him in pearls though

unfortunatly my Gary does not wear any jewellery
he was a builder/joiner his whole working life and he had seen too many nasty accidents to ever want to wear jewellery :(2
 

stracci2000

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because we have gone way off topic i will try to contain myself to just one picture
But Bruce Springsteen has worn a lot of jewellery
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never seen him in pearls though

unfortunatly my Gary does not wear any jewellery
he was a builder/joiner his whole working life and he had seen too many nasty accidents to ever want to wear jewellery :(2

Bruce wears it well!
And you know I have a soft spot for that awesome turquoise cuff......
 

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I got him to put on his "jade" beads for you guys (I'm told these are not actually jade, but a related material called dushan jade):

IMG_8254.jpeg

IMG_8252.jpeg

And here are the brooches I decorate his lapel with on fancy occasions. The light one is a c. 1900 silver gilt brooch from Sri Lanka set with natural rose-cut zircons (these are often sold incorrectly as 18th century European or English paste). I have a small version I wear to be companionable. The others are late-Victorian rose-cut Bohemian (pyrope) garnets. He wears these brooches one at a time.

IMG_8264.jpeg

And here are the backs--I always want to see the backs myself to understand the construction. Pen for scale. I need to replace the missing glass on the big garnet brooch's locket section and put our photos in it and its pendant.

IMG_8263.jpeg

Wow, fabulous brooches!
 

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@Dreamer_D
Is this finery? Here in the west, this is everyday glam!
My DH loves hats, rings, belt buckles and bracelets, but not necklaces.
@glitterata....He says "no" to pearls!

He was just headed out the door and I made him take a pic. Note the octopus belt buckle.
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@stracci2000 out of interest, did you make any of these fantastic pieces that your husband is wearing?

The octopus is v v v cool!
 

stracci2000

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@stracci2000 out of interest, did you make any of these fantastic pieces that your husband is wearing?

The octopus is v v v cool!

Yes, I made the turquoise ring and the variscite ring (the light green stone with black matrix). It has a snake wrapped around it.
I also made the one on his pinky, which is a diffusion treated star sapphire. I bought the stone 20 years ago, before I knew better! It does have a pretty star, though.

The narrow bracelet belonged to his grandmother, and the other bracelet he purchased from a local Navajo silversmith. They are similar styles so they work together. He layers jewelry way better than me!

I forget where he bought the octopus buckle. Í did not make the skull ring.
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canuk-gal

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HI:

Whoa, that belt buckle is SO cool! I'd love one!

cheers--Sharon
 

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Yes, I made the turquoise ring and the variscite ring (the light green stone with black matrix). It has a snake wrapped around it.
I also made the one on his pinky, which is a diffusion treated star sapphire. I bought the stone 20 years ago, before I knew better! It does have a pretty star, though.

The narrow bracelet belonged to his grandmother, and the other bracelet he purchased from a local Navajo silversmith. They are similar styles so they work together. He layers jewelry way better than me!

I forget where he bought the octopus buckle. Í did not make the skull ring.
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that man needs a record deal ! ;)2:kiss2:
 
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