decodelighted
Super_Ideal_Rock
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It's not over yet. Weeks or months from now he'll get a hold of her somehow & say that he can't believe how wrong he was and they are true soul mates and he'll change and she's such a kind, wonderful person who could totally forgive him etc etc etcallycat0303|1323090232|3074482 said:Uhmmm.... I think rock bottom just happened..... My sister just called me at 6 AM, and calmly told me that he had just called her, and left a screaming message that not only had he slept with his ex-girlfriend last weekend, but that in the 8 months they were together, nearly every second week that he said *he was on call* he actually was with her. She did not sound hysterical as is her usually MO. She just said, "I need to call cell phone company to get his phone number blocked because I want to phone messages, and especially no text." And then she said it feels really bad to be cheated on. I always suspected, but confirmation in such a brutal way is a bit unnecessary.
SO GET HER THE BOOK STILL. It'll help debrief from this situation and prepare her to resist the eventual attempts to reconcile. Ooof. Sorry you're in the middle of this, Ally. Just remember -- It's your choice whether to *remain* in the middle. Your sister needs to do some growing by herself. You can't do it for her.