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Ideal_Rock
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been given a used clothes by someone who is not related to you?
Background story: Last summer, we (FI and I) went out to the movies with his brother and his new girlfriend. I''ve met her before around two weeks before this movie-outing. Before going to the movie, they picked us up and as I get into the car, she gave me a bag full of clothes and I wondered "whats going on?". Seeing my face expression, my FI''s brother said "Oh, she cleaned up her closet and those are the clothes she no longer wants and she wonders if you like to have them." I didn''t say anything after that and my FI said "Oh, thank you!"
Anyway, I felt so offended because why someone gave me their used clothes. I''m wondering if she is trying to say something about my clothes. To make a long story short, my FI was furious at me. He said that I am being ungrateful. I am so shocked about his reaction so I asked my Mom. My Mom was furious at the girl who gave me her used clothes.
About my own background, I am from Indonesia and so is my Mom. Perhaps this will help you form an opinion.
I also wonder if this is actually the culture of this country (United States) that people give each other their used clothes? I can only guess this because I remember my FI was furious at me for being ungrateful.
Please help! I am very confused. Thanks!
Background story: Last summer, we (FI and I) went out to the movies with his brother and his new girlfriend. I''ve met her before around two weeks before this movie-outing. Before going to the movie, they picked us up and as I get into the car, she gave me a bag full of clothes and I wondered "whats going on?". Seeing my face expression, my FI''s brother said "Oh, she cleaned up her closet and those are the clothes she no longer wants and she wonders if you like to have them." I didn''t say anything after that and my FI said "Oh, thank you!"
Anyway, I felt so offended because why someone gave me their used clothes. I''m wondering if she is trying to say something about my clothes. To make a long story short, my FI was furious at me. He said that I am being ungrateful. I am so shocked about his reaction so I asked my Mom. My Mom was furious at the girl who gave me her used clothes.
About my own background, I am from Indonesia and so is my Mom. Perhaps this will help you form an opinion.
I also wonder if this is actually the culture of this country (United States) that people give each other their used clothes? I can only guess this because I remember my FI was furious at me for being ungrateful.
Please help! I am very confused. Thanks!