jenmarie
Shiny_Rock
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- Aug 14, 2009
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Things between me and BF have been nothing short of amazing lately. Nothing is all that different, but it''s like we''re on this whole other level somehow. I can''t even imagine at this point what getting engaged is going to feel like! Or married, for that matter.
Though not much has changed lately, I feel like he''s finally in the same place as me. Almost a year ago, when we first started talking seriously about marriage, he was more in the frame of mind that it was far away but he was happy that we had a plan. I felt frustrated for a long time and we got into a lot of fights because I felt like he just wasn''t as ready as I was.
I''ve been feeling a change from him for a while. The last month or so has been so great. We''ve been getting along better than we have in years, and I just feel so content. I can feel it coming from him, too. Yesterday, we spent the day together and talked about some things. He said things like how he used to feel like we needed to go places on the weekend and now he likes just staying home with me, how he suddenly feels like it''s time to move out (he lives with his mom), etc. Though he doesn''t feel comfortable buying a ring right now since he just got laid off, he''s so much more into talking about it. There are lots of conversations between us where he''ll say something about what he wants for our wedding.
I also got good news from the orthodontist Tuesday! I''m finally nearing the end of my braces journey. 2-3 more appointments, and I''ll be done! Yay!
Aside from BF getting laid off, things have been great all around. I feel like once he finds a new job, teaching or otherwise, everything will fall into place. I just wanted to share my excitement about everything else!
Though not much has changed lately, I feel like he''s finally in the same place as me. Almost a year ago, when we first started talking seriously about marriage, he was more in the frame of mind that it was far away but he was happy that we had a plan. I felt frustrated for a long time and we got into a lot of fights because I felt like he just wasn''t as ready as I was.
I''ve been feeling a change from him for a while. The last month or so has been so great. We''ve been getting along better than we have in years, and I just feel so content. I can feel it coming from him, too. Yesterday, we spent the day together and talked about some things. He said things like how he used to feel like we needed to go places on the weekend and now he likes just staying home with me, how he suddenly feels like it''s time to move out (he lives with his mom), etc. Though he doesn''t feel comfortable buying a ring right now since he just got laid off, he''s so much more into talking about it. There are lots of conversations between us where he''ll say something about what he wants for our wedding.
I also got good news from the orthodontist Tuesday! I''m finally nearing the end of my braces journey. 2-3 more appointments, and I''ll be done! Yay!
Aside from BF getting laid off, things have been great all around. I feel like once he finds a new job, teaching or otherwise, everything will fall into place. I just wanted to share my excitement about everything else!