I''m going to have to be vague here because my guy reads this site but
I have a commitment on the weekends right now through this spring. It''s something I promised some good friends I would lend a hand on. I''ve recently (as in 2 days ago) let them know 2 weekends I knew I would not be around to help. Now my boyfriend (who I''m hoping will propose by April) asked me to go away for a weekend with him and some of his friends. I''m a little suspicious that he has a plan for that weekend. The problem is it''s during the time I''m going to be helping my friends on this project and I feel TERRIBLE asking for another weekend away from it. They do know I''m hoping for a proposal soon but I obviously cannot rearrange all my plans around hoping for one.
Would you ask your friends for another weekend away from the project or tell your guy you cannot be expected to do that when you''ve made a commitment you''re already taking time from?
This project will last for about 9 weekends
I have a commitment on the weekends right now through this spring. It''s something I promised some good friends I would lend a hand on. I''ve recently (as in 2 days ago) let them know 2 weekends I knew I would not be around to help. Now my boyfriend (who I''m hoping will propose by April) asked me to go away for a weekend with him and some of his friends. I''m a little suspicious that he has a plan for that weekend. The problem is it''s during the time I''m going to be helping my friends on this project and I feel TERRIBLE asking for another weekend away from it. They do know I''m hoping for a proposal soon but I obviously cannot rearrange all my plans around hoping for one.
Would you ask your friends for another weekend away from the project or tell your guy you cannot be expected to do that when you''ve made a commitment you''re already taking time from?
This project will last for about 9 weekends