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Rough_Rock
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- Jun 10, 2018
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My fiance and I rushed into our engagement ring purchase -- we knew we had a small budget (under $3000 for now, and we plan to upgrade in a few years when we're not in grad school and our financial situation changes) so we felt we didn't have a lot of options and made a quick decision. Now that I've worn the ring and become familiar with the diamond I'm starting to wonder if we didn't get the best quality for the $ we paid, and I now notice much less scintillation in certain lights and a bit of haziness/loss of definition. The diamond we bought is a 0.65ct, very good cut, VS2 clarity and J color with strong blue fluorescence. We are very very new to the diamond world, so please help some total novices out with the collective knowledge/perspective on here!
So, now to the questions:
1. Now that I've done some reading about cuts and I realize that "very good" isn't very good at all, and I also know that fluorescence can cause haziness. I'm wondering which factor (or both?) is contributing to the look of this stone -- and is it a problem visually?
2. Did we overpay for this stone? We weren't given an individual quote for the diamond (we bought our wedding bands at the same time and were just given a single price for all three things), but working backwards I think we may have paid around $1600-ish.
3. If we did decide to upgrade/improve the ring, what is our best option to do this? We purchased from a bricks and mortar store in NYC's diamond district that does have a X2 upgrade policy. Considering we didn't go over budget here, we could perhaps consider doing this upgrade in a year or two, but the budget would still likely be less than $4000. Are we better off going back, or selling and going somewhere else?
OR am I making too big of a deal out of something that's not noticeable?? ANY advice or thoughts would be much appreciated! We're a bit clueless! Thank you so much in advance!






So, now to the questions:
1. Now that I've done some reading about cuts and I realize that "very good" isn't very good at all, and I also know that fluorescence can cause haziness. I'm wondering which factor (or both?) is contributing to the look of this stone -- and is it a problem visually?
2. Did we overpay for this stone? We weren't given an individual quote for the diamond (we bought our wedding bands at the same time and were just given a single price for all three things), but working backwards I think we may have paid around $1600-ish.
3. If we did decide to upgrade/improve the ring, what is our best option to do this? We purchased from a bricks and mortar store in NYC's diamond district that does have a X2 upgrade policy. Considering we didn't go over budget here, we could perhaps consider doing this upgrade in a year or two, but the budget would still likely be less than $4000. Are we better off going back, or selling and going somewhere else?
OR am I making too big of a deal out of something that's not noticeable?? ANY advice or thoughts would be much appreciated! We're a bit clueless! Thank you so much in advance!






