blissfulbride
Shiny_Rock
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- May 9, 2008
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We just sent out our save the dates about 2 weeks ago and now my fiance drop this bomb on me. He thinks we should have a very small wedding so we can buy a house sooner. He has a point because even after all the saving we have done for this wedding we are still going to go over our budget and then have to start from scratch. I''m just upset that he tells me this now when we could have discussed it before the save the dates were sent and now everyone is excited about the wedding.
Now im torn because part of me wants my dream wedding and a part of me wants to own a home so we can start working on a family sooner.
any stories or advice ?
Now im torn because part of me wants my dream wedding and a part of me wants to own a home so we can start working on a family sooner.
any stories or advice ?