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Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Dec 9, 2003
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. We''ve been talking about moving on in our relationship and changing our titles to "fiancee" at least. Well, being asia, there are auspicious days for him "pop the question." Since 4''s in chinese are bad numbers, we decided that it had to be this year or 2005. He didn''t want to wait another year so I knew it would be sometime this year. Since we didn''t know much about "auspicious days" we had to consult my mother who unfortunately told BOTH of us the days to get engaged. So the suprise is over, and I''m fustrated that there is so much superstition involved with this engagement thing! My question is then, should we continue with this planned engagement date or just forget it and tell him to pick his own date? I really rather keep it this year but how can it still be a surprise when I know the date? Maybe I need to get over this fantasy of having a fairy tale engagement and just be happy that we''re getting engaged. What do you think?