legallyspoiled
Shiny_Rock
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My mother is planning on throwing an engagement party for us. Originally, she wanted us to have two receptions. One in Houston and one in D.C. I told her that would be way too expensive and immediately vetoed the idea.
She then TOLD me that she was going to throw us an engagement party instead and that it was HER party and didn't want or need my input. (Don't you just love moms?) Honestly, this can be her baby. I have my hands full anyway. I just want to show up and look pretty.
Except, I have to get a guestlist to her. Here is my dilemma. I don't know who to invite. The whole point of the party is to invite family and friends who aren't likely to attend the wedding because it is so far away. But you aren't supposed to invite someone to an engagement party that you won't invite to the wedding. There are people that I want to invite to the engagement party who probably wouldn't be on my A-list for the wedding. Some of these people, I am pretty sure won't attend the wedding anyway. But you never know! It is difficult to put into words. I have people on my engagement party guest list who will get an invitation and will come. Others on the list will come and won't be on the list. Or do I just send everyone I invite to the engagement party an invitation to the wedding and pray they don't come?
What is the best approach for this?
Oh, and do I send the engagement party invitation to people who are out of towners (i.e. don't live in the DC Metro area)?!
She then TOLD me that she was going to throw us an engagement party instead and that it was HER party and didn't want or need my input. (Don't you just love moms?) Honestly, this can be her baby. I have my hands full anyway. I just want to show up and look pretty.
Except, I have to get a guestlist to her. Here is my dilemma. I don't know who to invite. The whole point of the party is to invite family and friends who aren't likely to attend the wedding because it is so far away. But you aren't supposed to invite someone to an engagement party that you won't invite to the wedding. There are people that I want to invite to the engagement party who probably wouldn't be on my A-list for the wedding. Some of these people, I am pretty sure won't attend the wedding anyway. But you never know! It is difficult to put into words. I have people on my engagement party guest list who will get an invitation and will come. Others on the list will come and won't be on the list. Or do I just send everyone I invite to the engagement party an invitation to the wedding and pray they don't come?
What is the best approach for this?
Oh, and do I send the engagement party invitation to people who are out of towners (i.e. don't live in the DC Metro area)?!