Well Jo-
I gotta tell ya, looking at that closeup, that stone can really stand on its own with no sidestones! Just gorgeous! What are the other specs of the diamond?
Luv
Edited to add:
The other thing you could do is have tiny channel set diamonds on the sides.
Congratulations on your wedding! That center stone is just gorgeous. I concur, the baguettes are too long- the ring is wider than your finger, which is not very visually pleasing. I think that considering the width of the center stone, it would look great as a solitaire, paired with an eternity ring. If you wanted some extra bling, diamond along the shank of the solitaire would look pretty sweet too. The height looks just right (I saw the pic on your other thread.
You can keep posting on just one thread, it doesn't matter if it seems you're replying to yourself.