RebeccaLynn
Rough_Rock
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- Apr 14, 2010
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- 34
hi everyone,
i have been mostly lurking for a while, but had to post because i don''t know what else to do with myself!
my boyfriend of 3 years and i spent over 2 months meeting with 4 different jewelers on a mission to find my ring-- we finally found THE ONE and he bought it over a month ago. i stepped away for the conversation he and the jeweler had about how long it was going to take to complete and when it should be delivered-- but i know he MUST have it by now. it''s taken all my will power and then some not to go through his closet searching for it (we live together and that''s the only place i can imagine he would hide it without risking me finding it) and i''ve been really good about not bothering him about it or bugging him with questions about the status.
well, we are going away for memorial day weekend and i''ve convinced myself that''s when he''s going to propose. i''m going absolutely crazy trying to make the week pass faster-- how is it still only monday?! but then i keep thinking to myself "what if he doesn''t do it?!" -- i can''t imagine how much longer he''s going to make me wait or what he could possibly have planned. our next few weekends are already filled with plans that are not very exciting and we both work way too much to have a spontaneous getaway or even to pull together a romantic proposal at home. so basically if it doesn''t happen this weekend, i''m going to completely lose my mind.
i can''t talk about this with friends or co-workers because nobody knows that we bought the ring-- if it''s not a surprise for me i want it to at least be a surprise to everyone else. i think this is the only place where i can come out with all of these details! please share your tips for keeping your sanity when you''re convinced it''s going to happen any day now!!!!! (and then maybe some tips for what to do if it doesn''t happen when you''ve already convinced yourself that it''s coming...).
RL
i have been mostly lurking for a while, but had to post because i don''t know what else to do with myself!
my boyfriend of 3 years and i spent over 2 months meeting with 4 different jewelers on a mission to find my ring-- we finally found THE ONE and he bought it over a month ago. i stepped away for the conversation he and the jeweler had about how long it was going to take to complete and when it should be delivered-- but i know he MUST have it by now. it''s taken all my will power and then some not to go through his closet searching for it (we live together and that''s the only place i can imagine he would hide it without risking me finding it) and i''ve been really good about not bothering him about it or bugging him with questions about the status.
well, we are going away for memorial day weekend and i''ve convinced myself that''s when he''s going to propose. i''m going absolutely crazy trying to make the week pass faster-- how is it still only monday?! but then i keep thinking to myself "what if he doesn''t do it?!" -- i can''t imagine how much longer he''s going to make me wait or what he could possibly have planned. our next few weekends are already filled with plans that are not very exciting and we both work way too much to have a spontaneous getaway or even to pull together a romantic proposal at home. so basically if it doesn''t happen this weekend, i''m going to completely lose my mind.
i can''t talk about this with friends or co-workers because nobody knows that we bought the ring-- if it''s not a surprise for me i want it to at least be a surprise to everyone else. i think this is the only place where i can come out with all of these details! please share your tips for keeping your sanity when you''re convinced it''s going to happen any day now!!!!! (and then maybe some tips for what to do if it doesn''t happen when you''ve already convinced yourself that it''s coming...).
RL