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Amber St. Clare|1324604173|3087173 said:Friends? No, we are all pretty much laid back. I will admit to having nicer jewelry than they do, but don't flaunt it and they admire it without envying it, they have other interests that I admire. One friend collects guitars about which I know nothing but they make her happy...
HOWEVER:
I have a neighbor who insists on getting ANYTHING she sees I {or we} have--jewelry, security system, pool, backyard furniture, manicure--you name it. Drives me nuts. Our friendship long ago disintegrated but we still see each other given that we are neighbors and she just can't wait to run over and show me her newest purchase, no matter what it is. My tepid responses don't deter her.
I used to have friends/neighbors who did exactly the same thing as your neighbor! Everything we bought (this was several years ago, during my first marriage), down to a kitchen under-the-cabinet stereo, they would run out and get. Same SUV (different color but only because they couldn't get the exact same model in the color we had), same outdoor grill, she even made her husband buy her the same watch I had been given! It was seriously annoying to say the least, and I am so glad I no longer have to deal with them. So stalker-ish!
I don't have anyone in my life like that now. All of our friends have their own unique style and tastes, and we all enjoy different activities except for live music, so there is no weirdness. We all appreciate each others' differences. We are acquainted with (through friends) one couple who are constantly bragging about themselves and their possessions, and we make a point of avoiding them when possible. Blech!