Amys Bling
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True!! I think when many people get engaged then girl doesn't explore enough an doesn't even know all the options before picking a ring or they are surprised with the ring- which leads to realizing down the road what you really want.Haven|1324487919|3086135 said:I'm just going to say that I'd like to ditto Deco's original response in this thread.
This is something I spent quite a bit of time thinking about when I first started to seriously consider upgrading. I loved my original e-ring, but shortly after we were engaged I realized that I may have chosen a ring that was far too modern for my taste. I picked out the entire original e-ring myself, and told my husband about my concerns. We told our jeweler to keep an eye out for an antique cushion, and about three years later he found *the one*. So, I upgraded the entire ring: new stone, new setting.
I asked myself a lot of questions before I went in to see the new stone: Why did I even mention antique cushions in the first place? What do I hope to get out of upgrading this ring? Is there some other reason I'm interested in starting a new ring project? When I realized I really just made a poor decision with my original ring and this was my opportunity to change that, I went for it. DH and I are pretty serious about where we put our money, and the timing was right because we had a little surplus, and there it was. It took me a while to admit (to myself, even) that I chose the wrong ring for me originally, but once I did I knew the upgrade was the right way to go. Luckily, I love the way it turned out and I'm confident that I'm finally wearing a ring that really suits me.