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You are completely wrong.Date: 11/4/2008 7:49:06 AM
Author: Stone-cold11
Date: 11/4/2008 6:43:52 AM
Author: arjunajane
SC, I don't see where Lorelei told you once 'you can't say something'..she simply added to your comments, and rightfully so.
I must say I am starting to find this bickering of yours slightly embarassing, it has happened in at least 2 new posters threads that I am aware of, and it gives an unpleasant view of PS to our new mbrs.
As Lorelei mentioned, we have All been corrected at some stage by those who have been around longer and have more knowledge than us - I don't see why you feel you should be exempt from this, you are not being singled out as it seems you may think.
The last time this issue came up, a number of us tried to explain as politely as possible the real issues behind the corrections. I fear you have simply ignored us all, which doesn't bode well for anyone.
Personally, this sort of arguing would have been a turn off for me when I was a new poster, especially the accusations of 'mummying', 'babying'etc..
Please try to see things from the OP's POV.
To Onemax, I apologize for the interruption, and wish you good luck in your search![]()
I interpret this as Lorelei is trying to shut me up
'And don't use those warnings to choose stones by categorizing them as ' young person's stone' or ' older person's' stone otherwise you could miss out on some great diamonds. Basically you need to carefully evaluate the more shallow stones as you noted earlier SC, but otherwise onemax these warnings are guidelines and not meant to be used as a rule.' Just as she interpret my observation in another post wrongly today
Yes, I simply ignore you guys because how you go about using the HCA is wrong, you have no idea what the bands are for, what the warnings are actually about. The choice is still with the OP on what he intends to do with the stone, I have never said do not go with that stone, ever. You brought this up and expect me to not defend myself when I find your opinions is wrong or contradictory to what and how I do things and expect me not to defend myself?
You linked the HCA usage warnings in this thread, I wanted the new poster to understand not to dismiss a diamond which might be perfectly suitable for them if such a stone should come along, that fell into the ' younger person's stone', or ' older person's stone.' There are many grey areas with diamonds, they are unpredictable and the HCA cannot physically see any diamond to definitely predict it will behave in a certain way, or will only be suitable for such and such a person. There are too many variables, cutters tricks, individual eyesights, personal ideals of beauty and many other factors which can influence whether a diamond will be the right one for a given person. And this can't be definitively predicted by an admittedly incredible invention which has been so generously shared with us all by such a wonderful guy. It has its limitations and he would tell you that himself most likely. And it is important to remember that the HCA predicts light performance and is not a live analysis of any diamond.
The diamond in question is a shallower combo, and as I said before might look darker at close scrutiny to some, but also like I said, it might not be a problem for that particular buyer - the best person to advise them on that would be an expert and experienced vendor who actually has the diamond in hand.
You said concerning the shallower stone " On the HCA, it is within the pendant/ear-ring stone range, it is probably going to be a dark stone under close observation so not a good stone for a ring."
The poster took that to mean that this diamond was not a good stone for a ring. You may not have said ' do not go with this stone ever' in so many words, but the poster apparently believed it was not an option for her due to your advice. Therefore I advised her to let WF investigate further as it seems she has already requested that the diamond be called in for evaluation, rather than reject it out of hand.
And also I understand how the HCA works perfectly well thank you, and what the bands and warnings mean. There is indeed no need for the nasty remarks and I again would appreciate it if you would not use them.
I also don't want to stop you posting here, that is not my intention. Again as I have said to you before, I have seen many times how easily new posters get confused with the advice offered and we have to be mindful of the advice we offer them in order to help them best. It is not personal I assure you, and I am not trying to ' shut you up' - but help you to understand the effect your well meant I am sure advice can have on those who are already nervous and uncertain when making the biggest purchase of their life in some circumstances.
GG - I also wonder if that was a mistake on the listing, but as you say I guess we will find out!
