Diamond pendant vs diamond e-ring DILEMMA

[diamond_lover_30]

Hi everyone,

I have a -beautiful- dilemma and I would really appreciate your help!

I have a 1ct engagement ring (1.02) heart shape, vs1 g color. My hubby bought it for me 10 years ago. For our anniversary he told me that he would love to buy me a bigger stone with better grading color too (2ct F color).

I’ve always wanted a pendant, but now that I know that it would be bigger than my ering I’m not sure anymore. What would you do? Would you create a new ring and reset my ring into a pendant? Would you go pear, round, heart shape or oval? Can you show me some pics? I don’t want to go into a shop and try them out and then just leave without buying, but I also wanted to do the “right choice”.

I’ve read a lot of topic about ratio between ering, pendant and earring so for reference my earrings are 0.5 each.

Thank you so much
xxx

 

[AllAboardTheBlingTrain]

I think a 1ct heart makes for a great pendant size, and I would likely upgrade my ring to a 2ct and wear the 1ct as a pendant. I don’t think there’s any real need to get hung up on the ratios between earrings/rings/pendants because what suits you will depend on lobe size/finger size/shoulder or chest width.

In terms of shapes, you should see what suits you. A round is generally a safe crowd pleaser, but is usually a bit more expensive. You clearly like heart shapes, since you had a heart ering already, but if your studs are not hearts I actually would keep all the shapes different which adds a bit more interest imo. Out of pears and ovals I find both shapes flattering on most hands and also have the best spread, but of course are harder to evaluate for cut quality. I personally would pick oval because it has a similar elongated spread as a pear but is safer as it does not have a tip that needs protecting, is generally priced a bit cheaper than a pear all else being equal, and I like how the shape looks on my hand (large hands but short fingers).

 

[MissGotRocks]

Definitely make the 2 ct. your engagement ring and make the 1 ct. a pendant. That should work out very nicely!

 

[diamond_lover_30]

I think a 1ct heart makes for a great pendant size, and I would likely upgrade my ring to a 2ct and wear the 1ct as a pendant. I don’t think there’s any real need to get hung up on the ratios between earrings/rings/pendants because what suits you will depend on lobe size/finger size/shoulder or chest width.

In terms of shapes, you should see what suits you. A round is generally a safe crowd pleaser, but is usually a bit more expensive. You clearly like heart shapes, since you had a heart ering already, but if your studs are not hearts I actually would keep all the shapes different which adds a bit more interest imo. Out of pears and ovals I find both shapes flattering on most hands and also have the best spread, but of course are harder to evaluate for cut quality. I personally would pick oval because it has a similar elongated spread as a pear but is safer as it does not have a tip that needs protecting, is generally priced a bit cheaper than a pear all else being equal, and I like how the shape looks on my hand (large hands but short fingers).

Thank you so much! You’re so kind and you’re answer is super informative! I did not knkw that different shapes have different prices…

I’m gonna turn it into a pendant. Do you think that a halo will be too much for daily wear?

Just for reference: my studs are round. My ears are quite big, my neck and chest slim and my fingers long and slim (4.5 size).

 

[diamond_lover_30]

Definitely make the 2 ct. your engagement ring and make the 1 ct. a pendant. That should work out very nicely!

Thank u! Do you see a big difference in size if you compare 1ct and 2ct?

 

[MakingTheGrade]

I think it’s all personal preference. My largest diamond is set in a pendant that makes it even bigger haha.

Part of my decision was that I wanted to always be able to wear the pendant if I wanted without feeling self conscious and people are much more keyed into the sizes of diamond erings than pendants.

My diamond rings and diamond pendant:

 

[diamond_lover_30]

I think it’s all personal preference. My largest diamond is set in a pendant that makes it even bigger haha.

Part of my decision was that I wanted to always be able to wear the pendant if I wanted without feeling self conscious and people are much more keyed into the sizes of diamond erings than pendants.

My diamond rings and diamond pendant:

It’s stunning!

I think it’s all personal preference. My largest diamond is set in a pendant that makes it even bigger haha.

Part of my decision was that I wanted to always be able to wear the pendant if I wanted without feeling self conscious and people are much more keyed into the sizes of diamond erings than pendants.

My diamond rings and diamond pendant:

wow! It’s stunning! Love your rings too

 

[AllAboardTheBlingTrain]

Thank you so much! You’re so kind and you’re answer is super informative! I did not knkw that different shapes have different prices…

I’m gonna turn it into a pendant. Do you think that a halo will be too much for daily wear?

Just for reference: my studs are round. My ears are quite big, my neck and chest slim and my fingers long and slim (4.5 size).

You’re welcome! I think a halo pendant is just fine for everyday wear. My daily pendant is 1.5ish carat in a halo and I love it.

 

[lala646]

@Wrkbrk has a heart shaped diamond pendant necklace I love. Scroll down to post #297 in this link.

What does your everyday necklace look like?

I love how all of your jewelry is so bold and personal, yet it works together harmoniously in different combos. Thanks! I recently discovered the world of pearls and have had a lot of fun making pieces that can be layered and worn in different combos!

www.pricescope.com

 

[dk168]

Personally, I would repurpose the original heart shaped diamond into a pendant or whatever that I would wear, most likely to be either a RHR or a bangle bracelet.

As for the new stone, it will be either an emerald cut or an OEC as they are the two cuts that I love.

DK

 

[diamond_lover_30]

@Wrkbrk has a heart shaped diamond pendant necklace I love. Scroll down to post #297 in this link.

What does your everyday necklace look like?

I love how all of your jewelry is so bold and personal, yet it works together harmoniously in different combos. Thanks! I recently discovered the world of pearls and have had a lot of fun making pieces that can be layered and worn in different combos!

www.pricescope.com

I loveeee it! Thank u!

 

[jennsono]

A pendant offers a lot of versatility, especially if it’s something you can layer or dress up/down. The idea of resetting your current engagement ring stone into a pendant is a great way to keep its sentimental value close while embracing a fresh look.

 

[jennsono]

A pendant offers a lot of versatility, especially if it’s something you can layer or dress up/down. The idea of resetting your current engagement ring stone into a pendant is a great way to keep its sentimental value close while embracing a fresh look.

As for shapes, round and pear tend to work beautifully for pendants because they catch light so well and sit naturally on the neckline. To get a feel for proportions, you could roll a d20 to visualize scale—sometimes seeing it on paper or through a mock-up can help you decide.

 

[ExplorePS]

Good problem to have and congrats on your anniversary ahead! Very sweet of your husband to allow you to take these next steps together.

I've been in your position on what to do with the original e-ring. The only advice I can share is that you might change your decision throughout the years... I've experienced the same tension of whether to take it apart and repurpose the stone. I went from "yes take it apart" to now "glad I've kept it as is" just for the sake of memory because I still wear it for specific occasions. So take your time with it and try to get your questions answered by doing mock-ups or maybe CZ jewelry to simulate the look and feel. Good luck and have fun!

 

[WillyDiamond]

OP, on another thread, someone posted a Barbara Martini setting for a diamond pendant, it is from BGD, take a look at that. If you are worried about the pendant stone being bigger than the new ER stone, why not take a look at LGD, you get a real good bang for the buck. Good luck.

 

[kenny]

Wear whatever you prefer, wherever you prefer.
IMO the owner's preference matters much more than what others prefer.
They're not wearing it.
They're not paying for it.

So what if your pendant diamond is heavier than the one in your ring?
If you must justify choices with made-up meanings, then make up one (they're all made up).
Here's one I made up that you're welcome to, or make up your own ... The bigger diamond means he loves me more now than when we got engaged.

If anyone comments that a your choice is wrong, I'd tell them they're free to make their so-called 'correct' choice when they shop.

BTW, there is no 'right'.
There's only 'right for you'.
The only one person can know what that is.
You.