cover sort-of blown

[ryan8211]

question for ladies

set up my proposal and I think my g/f figured it out, sort-of -- or at least strongly suspects she''s getting one, and how... but isnt 100%, obviously

should i try to throw her for a loop that day - a last second doubt that it might be IT - or is it fine that she thinks she knows but isn''t 100% sure? and it''ll just be nice.

 

[trillionaire]

could we get more information? I certainly don''t advocate lying in any way...

 

[treefrog]

Not a lady but I say derail that train and go for the certain surprise! I''m sure it will be wonderful either way but the best it sounds like she has is a guess. Sounds like she is pretty much expecting it so I''m sure she''ll have her nails looking good and will be dressing to be prepared.

Looking at the ''sneakiness'' in threads like this...

Very confused thread
... these women are undermining our plans and hard work. Derail that train and throw in a loop!

Best of luck to you! Keep us posted.

Treefrog

 

[pluck15]

I agree, thow her for a loop...don''t lie, but just make her second guess herself on what she thinks is the plan. The element of surprise always makes things so much better!

 

[ckrickett]

Im going to add my vote for, throwing her for a loop.

 

[ryan8211]

Thanks all - I didnt respond because I got paranod that maybe she knew about this site etc etc etc

anyway -- i called a last minute auduble (mostly weather related, not to add more surprise), and it turned out she had no clue - and it was very nice.

original plan was on a sail boat i rented - sunset sail around manhattan - we went yesterday, but got cut short due to weather. was a nice cap to the weekend still.
but I proposed over a picnic in central park, on sat - she said yes!

 

[treefrog]

Date: 7/27/2009 8:34:55 AM
Author: ryan8211
Thanks all - I didnt respond because I got paranod that maybe she knew about this site etc etc etc

anyway -- i called a last minute auduble (mostly weather related, not to add more surprise), and it turned out she had no clue - and it was very nice.

original plan was on a sail boat i rented - sunset sail around manhattan - we went yesterday, but got cut short due to weather. was a nice cap to the weekend still.
but I proposed over a picnic in central park, on sat - she said yes!

Too funny. I feared the same... hence a totally unidentifiable name for me on here.

Glad it worked out, congratulations!

Treefrog