clarity1264
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Oct 6, 2022
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Hi,
I recently had to put down my beloved support pet. As someone who struggles a lot with interpersonal relationships, he was everything to me. When I adopted him, he was free from the pet store due to being aggressive, I had this preconceived notion that I was saving him. I was SO wrong. As someone who survived a debilitating brain injury, and was in the icu, he really helped me cope with the change in self. He saved me more than I saved him. As I’m already in therapy, I know the basics of self care and dealing with loss. However, nothing could have prepared me for the loss of him. I guess I’m just wondering if someone has experienced anything similar, and if they did how do they cope with the first weeks after death. I’m a deeply misunderstood individual, and it’s almost a loss of self due to being loved and understood by him.
I recently had to put down my beloved support pet. As someone who struggles a lot with interpersonal relationships, he was everything to me. When I adopted him, he was free from the pet store due to being aggressive, I had this preconceived notion that I was saving him. I was SO wrong. As someone who survived a debilitating brain injury, and was in the icu, he really helped me cope with the change in self. He saved me more than I saved him. As I’m already in therapy, I know the basics of self care and dealing with loss. However, nothing could have prepared me for the loss of him. I guess I’m just wondering if someone has experienced anything similar, and if they did how do they cope with the first weeks after death. I’m a deeply misunderstood individual, and it’s almost a loss of self due to being loved and understood by him.