omc111
Rough_Rock
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omc111|1314249390|2998985 said:Is that why the stone came packaged in such an odd way?
You're completely free to ask this question, OMC. Please don't let the abrasiveness of some scare you back into lurkdom.omc111|1314311789|2999645 said:Please don't misunderstand. I love the stone--it's absolutely beautiful and I certainly meant no disrespect to Swala Gem Traders. Since I'm new, I was just trying to be careful...back to lurking I think.![]()
omc111|1314311789|2999645 said:Please don't misunderstand. I love the stone--it's absolutely beautiful and I certainly meant no disrespect to Swala Gem Traders. Since I'm new, I was just trying to be careful...back to lurking I think.![]()
athenaworth|1314315187|2999712 said:You're completely free to ask this question, OMC. Please don't let the abrasiveness of some scare you back into lurkdom.omc111|1314311789|2999645 said:Please don't misunderstand. I love the stone--it's absolutely beautiful and I certainly meant no disrespect to Swala Gem Traders. Since I'm new, I was just trying to be careful...back to lurking I think.![]()
Upgradable|1314467330|3001707 said:I think you may be over-reacting, TL. It is a common perception that CS is somewhat the Wild West of PS. It can be a scary place for newbies.
minousbijoux|1314468050|3001732 said:I actually attribute it to the sterile, expressionless nature of written communication - no emotion other than emoticons. The words, if delivered face to face, would most likely be softened by the tone of voice or a sympathetic facial expression but are not at all. I always try and keep this in mind when reading someone's emails; sometimes I think people read posts as critical or condescending but I think about the writer and know that's not at all how they meant it...the whole message is not coming through, only the words without the modifying gentleness bestowed by the nonverbal stuff...
Upgradable|1314468417|3001739 said:minousbijoux|1314468050|3001732 said:I didn't read the statement as an intentional insult.
TL|1314469689|3001781 said:Upgradable|1314468417|3001739 said:minousbijoux|1314468050|3001732 said:I didn't read the statement as an intentional insult.
I did, and in the past, if I had insulted some people, I had the consideration to explain myself, and/or apologize. You were also not part of the grouping of people in this post that I believe she insulted. Again, if people have problems with other people on this board, and it is really upsetting them, they should tell the moderators. Heaven knows, I have been offended and insulted numerous times on this board, and let it go, and I know others have been offended by me as they told me so. I will say that I never intentionally tried to offend anyone, but I can only use so many emoticons. . .![]()
Just not a happy, feely, touchy, lovey, emotional person, sorry. I tell it like it is, and that's my writing style. I apologize if this comes off as "abrasive."
The CS board can be intimidating. Pure and simple. My comment wasn't directed at anyone in particular. Sorry if you decided to take it personally TL.TL|1314469689|3001781 said:Upgradable|1314468417|3001739 said:minousbijoux|1314468050|3001732 said:I didn't read the statement as an intentional insult.
I did, and in the past, if I had insulted some people, I had the consideration to explain myself, and/or apologize. You were also not part of the grouping of people in this post that I believe she insulted. Again, if people have problems with other people on this board, and it is really upsetting them, they should tell the moderators. Heaven knows, I have been offended and insulted numerous times on this board, and let it go, and I know others have been offended by me as they told me so. I will say that I never intentionally tried to offend anyone, but I can only use so many emoticons. . .![]()
Just not a happy, feely, touchy, lovey, emotional person, sorry. I tell it like it is, and that's my writing style. I apologize if this comes off as "abrasive."
athenaworth|1314485830|3002168 said:The CS board can be intimidating. Pure and simple. My comment wasn't directed at anyone in particular. Sorry if you decided to take it personally TL.TL|1314469689|3001781 said:Upgradable|1314468417|3001739 said:minousbijoux|1314468050|3001732 said:I didn't read the statement as an intentional insult.
I did, and in the past, if I had insulted some people, I had the consideration to explain myself, and/or apologize. You were also not part of the grouping of people in this post that I believe she insulted. Again, if people have problems with other people on this board, and it is really upsetting them, they should tell the moderators. Heaven knows, I have been offended and insulted numerous times on this board, and let it go, and I know others have been offended by me as they told me so. I will say that I never intentionally tried to offend anyone, but I can only use so many emoticons. . .![]()
Just not a happy, feely, touchy, lovey, emotional person, sorry. I tell it like it is, and that's my writing style. I apologize if this comes off as "abrasive."