----------------
On 8/9/2004 9:50:21 PM Jennifer5973 wrote:
She could lie.
What average person is going to be able to discern the missing .05-.1 ct?![]()
I admit it: I am evil.----------------
----------------
But 1.0 ct is a pyschological barrier and your wife is going to have to tell everyone it is .95 cts versus 1 carat. Kinda like 190 hp instead of 200 hp, or 2950 sq ft house instead of 3030 sq ft.
----------------
As a woman, I could never imagine telling *anyone*, nevermind *everyone*, how much my diamond weighs. When I've overheard other women doing it, it sounds as though they are desperate to impress or prove something. I'm not saying that would be true in everyone's case, but to the casual bystander, that's how it sounds.
It also occurs to me that a well-cut .93 or so diamond (6.3 or so mm) would actually look bigger (and would BE bigger diameter wise) than a less well- cut 1 ct stone that measures 6.19. If I were the woman who owned the .93 or so stone and I felt compelled for some reason to divulge that information, I'd simply say it's a carat (see DR, it's not just the WF pricing I round.
Lastly, if I were the man who gave the .93 diamond, and I were to overhear my sweetie saying "it's .93/.95"....not to the learned diamond connosseur but to the average layman...... I'd likely feel as though she was ungrateful because she feels the need to point out to others that it's not a carat.
I'm not making value judgments on anyone else, just saying how these instances would strike *me*. It surprises me how much importance people place on being able to say "it's a carat". To me, it's like saying "I got it for 50% off!" That alone doesn't impress me - 50% off what?
I guess what I'm trying to say, Zeppelin, is that I'm one of those women who wouldn't be hung up on .07 and would be grateful for the gift instead of saying "but it's not a carat." And I know there are many women out there who would be equally grateful.
P.S. If it were me, I'd also be impressed at your ability to save a huge chunk of change for ALMOST the same thing by shopping smart.
----------------
On 8/10/2004 1:08:15 AM aljdewey wrote:
As a woman, I could never imagine telling *anyone*, nevermind *everyone*, how much my diamond weighs. When I've overheard other women doing it, it sounds as though they are desperate to impress or prove something. I'm not saying that would be true in everyone's case, but to the casual bystander, that's how it sounds.
----------------
----------------
On 8/10/2004 1:06:40 AM chialea wrote:
Being fiscally responsible is a greater statement of love than that extra tiny bit of carbon, at least to my thinking.----------------
----------------
On 8/10/2004 12:05:51 PM glitterata wrote:
The average person has no idea how big a carat is, anyway.
I have a 1.65 carat Old European Cut with a diameter of about 7.55 mm, which is more or less how big a 1.5 to 1.6 ideal cut should be. It's a terrificly bright and sparkly OEC. I've had people--even people who sell jewelry--say to me, 'What a beautiful diamond! How big is it, a carat?'
I always say, 'Thank you! It's about a carat and a half.' ----------------
----------------
LOL, glitterata.... Someone just complimented me on my new 1.52 RB Ideal and asked "What is that? A carat?" I almost died!
And this person is fairly sophisticated (owns a beautiful 2 ct Emerald cut stone). And we wonder why so many of us have “shrinkage” issues.
It is a good lesson re: how worrying about what others think can really drive you nuts.
----------------
On 8/9/2004 9:29:07 PM Zeppelin wrote:
Wondering if the difference in appearance is negligible -- thanks...----------------