I will be giving this to my wife (!!!!!! 28 more days!) on our wedding day. I hope the lobster clasp isn't too big, but it had to be larger in order for the engraving of our wedding date. Squeeee, I hope she likes it!
I love the thoughtfulness and really think the clasp will look fine. I know for me I have issues with tinier clasps anyways, especially now with my fingers hurting more everyday. Wow that is just a really great idea with the date engraving and sentimental on the day!