stepcutgirl
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Ok, so a few months ago my FSIL told me she wanted to take care of the bachelorette party, that it was her thing, she has planned all her friends parties, etc. Great! FSIL has always been one of the most dependable people I know, she's a straight shooter, I've not had one issue with her in five years. In fact I consider her a dear friend.
As of last night she was on top of it. She had sent out an itinerary of the day, said she had made dinner reservations and just needed to collect $100.00 from everyone to secure the room.
We are not staying at the Four Seasons, I'd expect each room to be 100 max and we only need two rooms!
Then this morning my sister calls to tell me she has concerns. Apparently early this morning my FSIL emailed my sister to say that she (FSIL) will not be staying the night with us and will go crash at a friends house at the end of the evening so could my sister take care of the hotel and making dinner reservations!
It's not about money FSIL and her fiancee bring home quite a bit of bacon.
I'm not sure if this is a big deal or if it's not. It felt like a big deal when I first heard about it because it is soooo out of the norm for her to do that. Or to say she has done things that she hasn't. And to just leave us all to go (presumably drunk) to a friends house around 3am???
I don't intend on saying anything so I'm not sure I need advice but...does this sound perfectly normal to anyone?
As of last night she was on top of it. She had sent out an itinerary of the day, said she had made dinner reservations and just needed to collect $100.00 from everyone to secure the room.
Then this morning my sister calls to tell me she has concerns. Apparently early this morning my FSIL emailed my sister to say that she (FSIL) will not be staying the night with us and will go crash at a friends house at the end of the evening so could my sister take care of the hotel and making dinner reservations!
I'm not sure if this is a big deal or if it's not. It felt like a big deal when I first heard about it because it is soooo out of the norm for her to do that. Or to say she has done things that she hasn't. And to just leave us all to go (presumably drunk) to a friends house around 3am???
I don't intend on saying anything so I'm not sure I need advice but...does this sound perfectly normal to anyone?