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And my answer is why I think it's better not to stay small town, at least for a while. If one wants to stay in Elmira NY say, good for them, but I will tell you, there are no jobs there, yeah grandma may be down the street but the most you can expect in life is less..
Was it my personal choice? not sure as my mother drilled it into my head often and more often than that.. only one of my brothers stayed local, the rest of us left and he was the only one who was a Trump lover, true this. If I lived in Minersville PA I'd leave... we go where the jobs are. Meaningful? that is true.. if one finds living on 25K a year and has a meaningful life, so be it.. for me growing up with bill collectors calling every evening between 4 and 7 living on a low salary with a family taught me I didn't want that life. My mother also said "To each his own".
Was it my personal choice? not sure as my mother drilled it into my head often and more often than that.. only one of my brothers stayed local, the rest of us left and he was the only one who was a Trump lover, true this. If I lived in Minersville PA I'd leave... we go where the jobs are. Meaningful? that is true.. if one finds living on 25K a year and has a meaningful life, so be it.. for me growing up with bill collectors calling every evening between 4 and 7 living on a low salary with a family taught me I didn't want that life. My mother also said "To each his own".
My question about marrying local and staying local was in response to what it seemed was your inference that to do that is bad or a mistake. Sure it wasn't right for you, but my question wasn't about your personal choice. Someone else might be perfectly happy with the husband who works at the electric company and a couple kids in their 20's. My point is that you cannot decide what is meaningful for someone else just because it is not what you would choose.![]()