charbie
Ideal_Rock
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- Nov 16, 2008
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i''m sooooo soooooo sorry about the loss of your cat. it isn''t right to have been treated that way by a supervisor.
i know you''re grieving, and like others have said, make sure to take the time to grieve before making any rash decisions. the cold nature of your supervisor obviously is magnified by your loss.
to answer your questions, we don''t get bereavement over the loss of a pet, just close family members, and even then it comes out of your PTO and is 3 days.
i''m so blessed though, that my boss would have told me to get home and take the time i needed to heal. i work in an environment where people die constantly- sometimes we all need a time away from it to not get burned out! shoooot- when my dog ate my shoes before my wedding and my dress wasn''t done and i had a million things come up last minute, she told me that obviously i wasn''t going to be productive at work, so go take care of what i needed to and come back later in the day so i could concentrate!
i know you''re grieving, and like others have said, make sure to take the time to grieve before making any rash decisions. the cold nature of your supervisor obviously is magnified by your loss.
to answer your questions, we don''t get bereavement over the loss of a pet, just close family members, and even then it comes out of your PTO and is 3 days.
i''m so blessed though, that my boss would have told me to get home and take the time i needed to heal. i work in an environment where people die constantly- sometimes we all need a time away from it to not get burned out! shoooot- when my dog ate my shoes before my wedding and my dress wasn''t done and i had a million things come up last minute, she told me that obviously i wasn''t going to be productive at work, so go take care of what i needed to and come back later in the day so i could concentrate!