Jane Austen wrote that honesty was a much overrated virtue. I draw a distinction between unctuous flattery and lying to spare someone's feelings. Would any of you really tell a new mother you think her baby is unattractive? I'd lie in a heart beat.
heeehheeeee 35th anniversary tomorrow. Going to bed early..![]()
I USUALLY...99% of the time tell the truth when I give a compliment. There have been a few times when a person I know truly looks bad and beaten down. They apologize for looking bad..saying they haven’t slept, worrying, etc. I will lie through my teeth. I always get a hug afterwards...Sometimes I feel you have to stretch it a bit if the person needs it.
Would any of you really tell a new mother you think her baby is unattractive?
So, how you guys really feel about me?![]()
Do you only flatter people when you mean it? Or do you flatter insincerely, and if is so, what might motivate you to do so?