devientdrow
Brilliant_Rock
- Joined
- Nov 28, 2005
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This isn''''t for me, but i''''m seeing what you guys can come up with for a friend of mine. She''''s just celebrated her 2 year wedding anniversary, and she would like to have her ering upgraded. I don''''t really know anything about her set, except both were purchased at mall stores and i''''m sure at a modest price consdiering they were only 19 and 20 when they got engaged, and I know their finances weren''''t great. I know we all cringe at the mall store but to my naked eye her wedding set has always been really pretty to me, lots and lots of sparkle. She has a .50ct round ering, in a plain white gold solitaire setting and a 5 stone (all rounds) wedding band. She is like me and doesn''''t want to ever change her wedding band. She has small finger and her ering to me has never looked small......actually it looks about in porportion to my .83ct on my big man hands! However after I upgraded my stone she confessed to me that she always really wanted a 1ct stone. That she would be more than happy with that. She''''s only been married 2 years but they had a really long engagement so she''''s been wearing it for almost 5 years now. Maybe more! Anyway when I told her about pricescope and the awesome prices for diamonds with the online vendors, and the quality she got really excited! She thought if she ever wanted bigger she''''d have to buy a whole new ring. She approcahed her husband about it and he flipped. He was not happy at all about it. She doesn''''t quite know why eithier. He didn''''t really give her a straight reason other than, isn''''t that one good enough for you? So were assuming maybe his pride was hurt that she''''d want to change the original ring he proposed with. I asked her about maybe changing her setting to something like a halo, and she didn''''t like that idea. She likes the look of a plain solitaire. I feel bad for her, I know that this is the ring she will wear for a lifetime and what would make her really happy is to upgrade to a better quality stone at 1ct or even just below. However, she doesn''''t want to keep bringing it up and hurting her hubby''''s feelings. It''''s a sucky situation