Normally I'm a forum lurker but on this one occasion I am going to try to get all the advice I can.
I'm in the early stages of getting an alexandrite engagement ring made for my unsuspecting girlfriend. I was a complete gem newbie about a month ago but at this point I know a little bit (about alexandrites anyway).
Generally I get really into major projects like this and have been spending every waking moment (when not in my girlfriend's presence) learning about the different gem stones. I've finally decided that I want it to be an alexandrite.
Next up, I have been browsing pictures of gem stone rings, to see if I can find something I like. I was looking mostly at modest size stones, since we both generally like simpler things, and because alexandrites are worth a fortune. I thinking of a three stone ring as she has shortish fingers and I like the look of them too. I stumbled upon this picture (I'm not sure where) and really liked it. The centre stone is 0.4 carats. I'd like to hear your opinions as to whether this could work as and E-ring (the picture should be attached).
Where I've really been spending my time is looking for the stone. Since its going to be a small stone, I want it to be really top quality. I'm hoping for 0.39 to 0.49 carat stone in oval cut. In alexandrites, colour is most important so I'm looking for 95% colour change from blue-Green to violet or reddish purple.
I figure online is by far my best bet since alexandrites are so rare, although I am a bit nervous about buying a gem that I've never seen in person. Looks like the best site is khazargems.com which sells almost exclusively alexandrite and has a wide selection. They seem to have a good reputation too. The stones themselves at Khazargems look phenomenal and they are selling them for more or less whole sale prices, which means I will actually be able to afford one. The only thing is that most of them are natively cut, giving lots of them large windows and mediocre brilliance.
My first question about the stone is how much emphasis I should put on brilliance and clarity? In alexandrite, it's supposed to be colour that really matters. However, this is for an engagement ring, where diamonds are the standard. As such I was really hoping for VVS clairity and a really superb, brilliant cut.
Would it be worth it to get one of the native cut gems on khazargems, re-cut? One of the ones they have posted (I applogise if you are reading this some time in the future and the link is now broken) is a 0.55 carat stone that is natively cut and has a large window. It seems otherwise perfect. Could this be cut into the stone? How much does cutting cost?
I'm hoping this thread become a place where I can get advice through this whole process and also be a resource for others thinking of making and alexandrite E-ring (which I'm really excited for).
Thanks

I'm in the early stages of getting an alexandrite engagement ring made for my unsuspecting girlfriend. I was a complete gem newbie about a month ago but at this point I know a little bit (about alexandrites anyway).
Generally I get really into major projects like this and have been spending every waking moment (when not in my girlfriend's presence) learning about the different gem stones. I've finally decided that I want it to be an alexandrite.
Next up, I have been browsing pictures of gem stone rings, to see if I can find something I like. I was looking mostly at modest size stones, since we both generally like simpler things, and because alexandrites are worth a fortune. I thinking of a three stone ring as she has shortish fingers and I like the look of them too. I stumbled upon this picture (I'm not sure where) and really liked it. The centre stone is 0.4 carats. I'd like to hear your opinions as to whether this could work as and E-ring (the picture should be attached).
Where I've really been spending my time is looking for the stone. Since its going to be a small stone, I want it to be really top quality. I'm hoping for 0.39 to 0.49 carat stone in oval cut. In alexandrites, colour is most important so I'm looking for 95% colour change from blue-Green to violet or reddish purple.
I figure online is by far my best bet since alexandrites are so rare, although I am a bit nervous about buying a gem that I've never seen in person. Looks like the best site is khazargems.com which sells almost exclusively alexandrite and has a wide selection. They seem to have a good reputation too. The stones themselves at Khazargems look phenomenal and they are selling them for more or less whole sale prices, which means I will actually be able to afford one. The only thing is that most of them are natively cut, giving lots of them large windows and mediocre brilliance.
My first question about the stone is how much emphasis I should put on brilliance and clarity? In alexandrite, it's supposed to be colour that really matters. However, this is for an engagement ring, where diamonds are the standard. As such I was really hoping for VVS clairity and a really superb, brilliant cut.
Would it be worth it to get one of the native cut gems on khazargems, re-cut? One of the ones they have posted (I applogise if you are reading this some time in the future and the link is now broken) is a 0.55 carat stone that is natively cut and has a large window. It seems otherwise perfect. Could this be cut into the stone? How much does cutting cost?
I'm hoping this thread become a place where I can get advice through this whole process and also be a resource for others thinking of making and alexandrite E-ring (which I'm really excited for).
Thanks
