Erin
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The purpose of this post is not intended to be a ''poor me'' rant. I am seeking advice on how to ease my bf''s anxiety.
I''m 32 and he''s 38 and today I am 8 weeks pregnant. We''re both pretty nervous and apprehensive about this but he is an extreme worrier by nature. He''s recently divorced (only one year, but separated for more than two) with two small children.
His big fear is that he already has one broken home where he can''t be the father he wants to be - only Wednesday nights and every other weekend. Our limited relationship screams inexperience with the cards stacked against us where yet another broken family is statistically certain. I wish I could promise him everything will turn out great.... but I can''t. As much as I care for him six months, okay seven now, is not enough to know anything. I know where he''s coming from but right now life is what it is.
Some moments he seriously loses it. He can''t handle the idea of having two failed families. When he gets worked up like this I can think of nothing to say. Please, any advice is greatly appreciated.
I''m 32 and he''s 38 and today I am 8 weeks pregnant. We''re both pretty nervous and apprehensive about this but he is an extreme worrier by nature. He''s recently divorced (only one year, but separated for more than two) with two small children.
His big fear is that he already has one broken home where he can''t be the father he wants to be - only Wednesday nights and every other weekend. Our limited relationship screams inexperience with the cards stacked against us where yet another broken family is statistically certain. I wish I could promise him everything will turn out great.... but I can''t. As much as I care for him six months, okay seven now, is not enough to know anything. I know where he''s coming from but right now life is what it is.
Some moments he seriously loses it. He can''t handle the idea of having two failed families. When he gets worked up like this I can think of nothing to say. Please, any advice is greatly appreciated.