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Yes. Although it would be nice to have, i think I would feel a lot more comfortable when I get this year's private school payments under my belt, which won't be until Feb. And I'm sure there will be something that comes up after that. But I have a lot of riches in my life, most importantly my kids, so it is all relative. Maybe I will get myself a turquoise or cz ring just for fun, but nothing too expensive.
 
Hi,

I found the perfect ring for you. It is a zircon five stone ring, 1.75 cts in sterling silver. Not cubic ziconia, not that i mind that, but is a gemtone that is often used as a substitute for diamond.
I saw it this morning on JTV for $29.99. How can you beat that. Even if you hate it, and want to send it back it will only cost you the shipping and handling.

I as so tempted myself, but I have so many rings. But its still on my mind. I think it was shown in the 8am hour CT.

Annette
 
smitcompton said:
Hi,

I found the perfect ring for you. It is a zircon five stone ring, 1.75 cts in sterling silver. Not cubic ziconia, not that i mind that, but is a gemtone that is often used as a substitute for diamond.
I saw it this morning on JTV for $29.99. How can you beat that. Even if you hate it, and want to send it back it will only cost you the shipping and handling.

I as so tempted myself, but I have so many rings. But its still on my mind. I think it was shown in the 8am hour CT.

Annette
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I like how zircons look, but I worry about chipping. Aren't they more on the fragile side? Plus I love rounds over other shapes.
 
Hi,

They are more fragile, but use it for the occasions you need a pick-up, even at Walmarts.

A few yrs back JTV had(and still has) zircons in stud earrings-for the right price. They came with the do it yourself 14kt gold settings. I bought two prs, one for me, one for a friend. I put together the studs for my friend and I was very proud of them. I explained they weren't fake and she loved them and got compliments on them. She is a plain person and was afraid people would think she was showing off. She wore them last week. $29 well worth it.

However, I didn't put mine together right away and several yrs later when I pierced my ears I went to make them. Lo and behold one zircon was cloudy, so that was disappointing to me. So I know they can be cloudy. Well, look at the ring or studs for your pickup. I got real diamond studs so I have a zircon left over. But I made my friend happy. Its just a thought. I thought of you right way.

Annette
 
That's very sweet. I am one of those champagne tastes on a beer budget person. I was actually looking at the forbidden (m) word simulant, and I may end up getting one of those if I see a design I like in a price range I'm OK with.
 
I vote C as I've worked a lawyers office and those legal fees can be bl**dy hideous! :doh: How about a CZ for the meanwhile until you have saved up for the real-deal? Do it once and treat yourself properly to celebrate finalizing the divorce.
 
My solution: ordered a fun, funky sim ring (round solitaire in bypass design), and also a vintage turquoise ring in the style I have wanted for awhile (zuni snake eye petit point style). I also love the Persian turquoise rings in gold, but a little rich for my blood right now. So all told less than $200, and will have something fun to wear, until I have the financial freedom to get a real super ideal diamond, which I want to do someday. Although I wear a lot of silver and semi precious gemstones, have not really worn much in way of sims, just never cared for it. But I think the style of the ring works for a fun ring, without the heaviness or implication of an engagement ring.

I feel my jewelry bucket list is rather modest; I would like a 5 stone ring, and also a round ideal diamond .50-.75 in size. I would love to get a high quality but not large cabochon ring, such as in chrysophrase or sapphire. I'm willing to wait to get those things.
 
Costly is right. If I go to court I need to pay my lawyers a 10 to 15k retainer. As far as deadbeat dad, I'm not counting on him really providing any money. My issue as I was primary breadwinner, how much I will need to give him in assets, and whether I will need to pay him child support. Emotionally I'm in a much better place (marriage was emotionally abusive last few years) but financially is going to be, devestating. With new situation I may or may not be able to keep the house, and can't afford my youngest specialised school for her learning difficulties. I just need to accept it.
 
partgypsy,

I call it 'the price of freedom'.

Legal costs of the divorce were nothing compared to what I had to pay my ex.
Could have bought a 10 ct diamond and fabulous setting without blinking compared to what I paid him.
Ironically, your exact words described how I felt at the time; financially devastated.
For someone who's always been considered strong and determined, it was a not a good feeling.
However, I have survived and thrived.

So, don't mean to threadjack, but wanted to let you know that you'll get through this.
Life will be so much better moving forward, free of the tension and craziness of a bad marriage.
Enjoy your new jewellery; you were wise to be practical at this stage.
You'll be in a stronger financial position down the road. Stay strong and stay the course.

Sending hugs and positive thoughts as you move through this challenging stage.
 
Yes, I'm actually looking forward to my new pieces, and that I can enjoy them "guilt free". I already am in a better place. At peace with myself. And regained friends I didn't know I had. He broke my heart. Regardless, at some point, like a fox in a trap,i was ready, to chew my leg off to get out the bad situation.
 
I'm sorry you are going through this. Divorce is so difficult. I wish you the best.
 
Part gypsy, honestly I just hate that you have to go through something like this...you are handling everything with such dignity and grace and I really admire you. I know this must be so hard for you. You are a strong and amazing woman and you will get through this, and come out the other side happy, healthy, and strong. I am so glad you treated yourself to a few things to enjoy for now. And I cannot wait for the day you get that ideal cut diamond! Please know I am keeping you in my thoughts and I wish I could be of more help to you. Hang in there, your PS friends are here for you.
 
Thank you Junebug! And everyone else who posted supportive words!
:wavey:
 
I put a savings plan into place and actively start saving now, so you feel like you are taking steps forward. Since you are not sure about your forseeable financial future, it would also give you more peace of mind to have a little savings fund. Then see where you are after a year and see what you can afford at that time. I'm sorry that you are going through all this @partgypsy. I hope the divorce process goes smoothly and that you will be able to put all this behind you and look forward to a happier, freer future. And I totally agree with selling some of your gem stones, ones that you realistically don't absolutely love and will not set. No point in having stones sit around that you won't ever use.
 
I got the little turquoise stacking ring and its beautiful. I want to get a few more thin bands to stack with it. I was eagerly looking forward to receiving the sim ring. But- while it is a beautiful ring it is set too high for me and overall look too blingy for me. And, don't know if I can get over the sim factor. So it's going back. I am heavily considering getting a tiny diamond band, that I can stack with my turquoise ring. There are a couple at I.D. jewelry I really really like. I know myself too well. I'd rather have a small ring with real diamonds, than even beautiful large sim. I get paid on Friday, and can cash flow the amount (less than 500). I am actually excited by this idea, having a tiny diamond band, that I can stack with less expensive bands as the mood suites. What do you all think?
 
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