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I hesitated about posting this, even though it is about diamonds, because it is so self-centered and self-absorbed. If you cannot bear narcissism, please skip this thread!
I have not been wearing any jewelry (except for a cheap Timex watch) for at least a year. Once in a while when I go out I do put on a pair of sterling Elsa Peretti earrings and, on even rarer occasions, a matching scarf necklace. But these occasions are few and far between. A few years ago I at least put on some high karat gold and diamond pieces for family parties, but I have not even been bothering to do that lately. For instance, tomorrow my brother, his wife, and his mother-in-law are coming down to take my daughter and me to a restaurant to celebrate her birthday. In the past, for a family party, I would have put on a black dress and hose and gotten out my high karat gold and diamonds. I am planning on wearing jeans and no jewelry tomorrow.
For a long time I wanted only one piece of jewelry. I wanted to upgrade my 1.67 carat F color ideal cut solitaire to a 3 carat. But since I wasn't willing to forgo clarity or color, I thought I was going to have to spend over $125,000. I would have had to sell all my major pieces of jewelry to do that and I didn't have the energy to do it.
Now I am looking at prices and seeing that for "only" $65,000 or so I could get a 3 carat ring that is D to F color and VS clarity and well cut. I even saw that even Phoenix' huge ring was for sale for under $120,000.
I wondered if I sold my large red spinel ring and my tanzanite and my diamond solitaire if I wouldn't have close to $45,000. I also have a stone that over 2 carats and beautifully set in a gold bezel and an 18K gold wire necklace. It is not ideal cut but it is high color (I think an E) and VS clarity and was bought when 60/60 was the way to buy a good stone!
So I guess I am wondering if I should put up these four pieces (which are not all my diamonds and not all my high karat gold) and see if I can come up with with which to buy a ring. If I then feel ambitious I can sell one of my other diamonds later-I have one that is about 1.5 carats, a G color, set in a 24K gold bezel ring.
Should I do this? What I think I really want is just a "large" (for me) solitaire. (I wouldn't mind owning Phoenix' ring. Maybe if I also sold all my gold bangles,* which I wouldn't mind parting with, I could pay for it, but I just don't have the energy to sell things!!!)
Advice? I have consigned jewelry and a diamond, but never sold anything on my own! It seems very daunting.
Deb/AGBF
*I have seven 24K solid bangles that weigh tons!
I have not been wearing any jewelry (except for a cheap Timex watch) for at least a year. Once in a while when I go out I do put on a pair of sterling Elsa Peretti earrings and, on even rarer occasions, a matching scarf necklace. But these occasions are few and far between. A few years ago I at least put on some high karat gold and diamond pieces for family parties, but I have not even been bothering to do that lately. For instance, tomorrow my brother, his wife, and his mother-in-law are coming down to take my daughter and me to a restaurant to celebrate her birthday. In the past, for a family party, I would have put on a black dress and hose and gotten out my high karat gold and diamonds. I am planning on wearing jeans and no jewelry tomorrow.
For a long time I wanted only one piece of jewelry. I wanted to upgrade my 1.67 carat F color ideal cut solitaire to a 3 carat. But since I wasn't willing to forgo clarity or color, I thought I was going to have to spend over $125,000. I would have had to sell all my major pieces of jewelry to do that and I didn't have the energy to do it.
Now I am looking at prices and seeing that for "only" $65,000 or so I could get a 3 carat ring that is D to F color and VS clarity and well cut. I even saw that even Phoenix' huge ring was for sale for under $120,000.
I wondered if I sold my large red spinel ring and my tanzanite and my diamond solitaire if I wouldn't have close to $45,000. I also have a stone that over 2 carats and beautifully set in a gold bezel and an 18K gold wire necklace. It is not ideal cut but it is high color (I think an E) and VS clarity and was bought when 60/60 was the way to buy a good stone!
So I guess I am wondering if I should put up these four pieces (which are not all my diamonds and not all my high karat gold) and see if I can come up with with which to buy a ring. If I then feel ambitious I can sell one of my other diamonds later-I have one that is about 1.5 carats, a G color, set in a 24K gold bezel ring.
Should I do this? What I think I really want is just a "large" (for me) solitaire. (I wouldn't mind owning Phoenix' ring. Maybe if I also sold all my gold bangles,* which I wouldn't mind parting with, I could pay for it, but I just don't have the energy to sell things!!!)
Advice? I have consigned jewelry and a diamond, but never sold anything on my own! It seems very daunting.
Deb/AGBF
*I have seven 24K solid bangles that weigh tons!